Common
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Drexell
Nov 30, 2003 18:01:17 GMT -5
Post by Common on Nov 30, 2003 18:01:17 GMT -5
First, to you I apologize, I hit the incorrect button. This was not to you, again I am sorry. I do completely agree with your opinion an education does not a person make. You responded to this and yes, as is evident it is allowed. Why are my responses viewed as disruptive? I haven't cursed or sworn, I do not think I have, anyway(?) Cursing/swearing is not the only way to be "disruptive". The other way is when you continue to go tit for tat with someone everytime they say something when they are not talking to you. Granted, everyone has a right to defend themselves but at some point, something has got to give. Which is why I have stopped responding to you because 1) out of respect for CP, it wouldn't be contructive to keep drama going & 2) you already have your own board. When you posted your departing shot at myself & der68 in der68's thread, why didn't you think that der68 wasn't going to respond to that as well? Regardless what you do, unfortunately, you're not going to stop people from talking about you when you also continually make little comments here & there on this very board about certain participants, namely me & der68(sorry to keep throwing your name in here). Again, no sweat off of me but how would like it if someone went to your board & do the exact same thing that you're doing?
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der68
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Drexell
Nov 30, 2003 18:28:19 GMT -5
Post by der68 on Nov 30, 2003 18:28:19 GMT -5
drex from the first board I Never said anything out of the way to you. You however took it upon yourself to be vocal towards me in your defense of Jody. Still I didn't really say anything against you. But then you come to this board,and the second me and Jody got into it you started taking CHEAP shots at me and Common. I read the post where you and Common were coming to an understanding. Then Jody jumps up and post to Common. What are you two? A Tag-Team Duo? I wasn't going to post to you until I saw your parting post where you attempted to analyze me. Well first of all it was funny as hell,because I don't think you are equipped to analyze anybody. Why don't you just be honest! You want to make remarks about and to Common and Myself because of the incident with Jody. Molly and Andy both can post anything they want to and we get Dead Silence. If Common or myself even agree with them here you or your friends come. What is the deal here? I was not making fun of your education.You should be applauded. I only made mention of it because you and your friends mention it soooooo much. If I have done anything that has offended you,then you be a woman and address that! If this is about the Jody fiasco then you had better leave me the Hell alone. Jody has had every opportunity to have her say with me. She is logged onto this board many times when I come to post. I even sent her a IM when I saw her logged in. Since you obviously stand for Truth,Justice and The American Way of Life you really should not take sides without knowing the WHOLE story.Thats just not Intelligent.
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Drexell
Nov 30, 2003 20:43:41 GMT -5
Post by drex on Nov 30, 2003 20:43:41 GMT -5
Common, Der68 can say anything she wishes and it is her “right”, yet, if I find it offensive and reply, I am disruptive. And no, I do not think the type of words used here should be allowed to be posted on any board. But, when someone disagrees with me, I hope I do not treat them in the same manner.
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Common
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Drexell
Nov 30, 2003 20:55:22 GMT -5
Post by Common on Nov 30, 2003 20:55:22 GMT -5
Common, Der68 can say anything she wishes and it is her “right”, yet, if I find it offensive and reply, I am disruptive. And no, I do not think the type of words used here should be allowed to be posted on any board. But, when someone disagrees with me, I hope I do not treat them in the same manner. Drexell, I looked at what der68 said to Andy on this thread. You took it upon yourself, along with MB, to jump on her. I don't know what boards you frequent, but I've read worse. What type of "words" have der68 used that you deem "offensive"? Besides, the fact that she has called you an "idiot"(her words, not mine), which I don't agree with but I've seen where you WEREN'T attacked & you still came back with catty remarks towards myself & der68, especially, as I stated before, I had stopped addressing you. Your quote about "certain people only talk to certain people on this board" & your comment about the "moderators know who is that posts here" wasn't called for. I'm the only "moderator" here so it's obvious that you were referring to ME.(And btw, your comment isn't exactly true either). And when you say "you hope you don't treat people in the same manner that don't agree with you" , you already have. You've decided to get involved the argument between Jody & der68. My personal reasons for not conversing with Jody anymore had NOTHING to do with the board per se. As I stated, before, I don't care if no one agrees with me but I expect people to be honest enough to pull my coattail when I'm wrong. But it seems like you can't do the same to others when they are clearly not correct in what they are doing. One thing about me is I get along, but I do NOT go along.
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der68
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Drexell
Nov 30, 2003 23:05:55 GMT -5
Post by der68 on Nov 30, 2003 23:05:55 GMT -5
Common, Der68 can say anything she wishes and it is her “right”, yet, if I find it offensive and reply, I am disruptive. And no, I do not think the type of words used here should be allowed to be posted on any board. But, when someone disagrees with me, I hope I do not treat them in the same manner. drexell I asked you in my previous post to tell me how I have offended you. Instead of answering you post to Common and mention how offensive I am once again. I have asked you to be specific in the things you're referring to where I am concerned. What type of words are you talking about? Why wasted your time making sweeping accusations without saying what you mean. I have used mild profanity on this board,so have others,is that what you're talking about? My guess is no. Unless you are wlling to be honest and upfront in your post. Please do not mention me again. I am a woman,and I don't hide behind innuendo and sarcastic remarks. If I have something to say I am going to say it.Enough of these evasive answers. Either say exactly what you are talking about or just stop making reference to it. That's how adults do it. If anything said on this board has offended you. Then you had better get thick-skinned real quick for this project you are about to undertake. The type of digging that you are have to do in order to intervew people with any info about that night will require your coming in contact with many types of people. Most extremely "street savy" and I don't think they are going to be selective in their words when they speak to you.
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Drexell
Dec 1, 2003 14:28:45 GMT -5
Post by Drex on Dec 1, 2003 14:28:45 GMT -5
There is a difference between being "thick skinned" and calling someone an idiot. I do not think of anyone as being an idiot. That form of labeling is not very encouraging. I am into building up people-as it apparent, I do not care for tearing folks down. Just my opinion.
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