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Post by SarahLee on Apr 19, 2006 13:33:54 GMT -5
After a few of the family members and I had time to review this thread they brought up a good point, why did Addie only post a couple lines of my email to her and not its entirity? Good point. Another good point was she used this opportunity for a public vengence of a private family issue. Hence the reason she didn't post all of my email. The family matter also includes outting her intentions in reference to David Ruffin material that she is involved in. I more than gave her credit on my previous board, I didn't know I needed to keep the credits running. What I didn't know is to what level she will go to for notirioty. So having said all this, I won't graciously give her an "out", it's more like a doppler storm warning, "brace yourself!" (To heck with the spelling and I am not winking this time!) Please spare us!!!!
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Post by Common on Apr 19, 2006 15:39:45 GMT -5
After a few of the family members and I had time to review this thread they brought up a good point, why did Addie only post a couple lines of my email to her and not its entirity? Good point. Another good point was she used this opportunity for a public vengence of a private family issue. Hence the reason she didn't post all of my email. The family matter also includes outting her intentions in reference to David Ruffin material that she is involved in. I more than gave her credit on my previous board, I didn't know I needed to keep the credits running. What I didn't know is to what level she will go to for notirioty. So having said all this, I won't graciously give her an "out", it's more like a doppler storm warning, "brace yourself!" (To heck with the spelling and I am not winking this time!) Which 'few family' members are you referring to Drex? Jr has a computer but Nedra doesn't. How do they feel about you posting their private business on the net to begin with? It's one thing for you & Addie having a spat and showing it to DR's 'family members' but did you also tell them that not just Addie, but you were also posting their personal business such as Cheryl's divorce decree and digging into her tax returns and Jr & Nedra's living situation? It's one thing to say that Addie had her own 'agenda' but it's quite another when you are also doing things that are not right. I refuse to get in the middle of a 'sisterly spat' and honestly don't know who's telling the truth but I do know one thing: that you have also put out too much personal info about David's children that should stay private.
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Post by Brandy on Apr 19, 2006 15:48:53 GMT -5
After a few of the family members and I had time to review this thread they brought up a good point, why did Addie only post a couple lines of my email to her and not its entirity? Good point. Another good point was she used this opportunity for a public vengence of a private family issue. Hence the reason she didn't post all of my email. The family matter also includes outting her intentions in reference to David Ruffin material that she is involved in. I more than gave her credit on my previous board, I didn't know I needed to keep the credits running. What I didn't know is to what level she will go to for notirioty. So having said all this, I won't graciously give her an "out", it's more like a doppler storm warning, "brace yourself!" (To heck with the spelling and I am not winking this time!) Which 'few family' members are you referring to Drex? Jr has a computer but Nedra doesn't. How do they feel about you posting their private business on the net to begin with? It's one thing for you & Addie having a spat and showing it to DR's 'family members' but did you also tell them that not just Addie, but you were also posting their personal business such as Cheryl's divorce decree and digging into her tax returns and Jr & Nedra's living situation? It's one thing to say that Addie had her own 'agenda' but it's quite another when you are also doing things that are not right. I refuse to get in the middle of a 'sisterly spat' and honestly don't know who's telling the truth but I do know one thing: that you have also put out too much personal info about David's children that should stay private. Amen to this
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Post by der68 on Apr 20, 2006 8:06:43 GMT -5
After a few of the family members and I had time to review this thread they brought up a good point, why did Addie only post a couple lines of my email to her and not its entirity? Good point. Another good point was she used this opportunity for a public vengence of a private family issue. Hence the reason she didn't post all of my email. The family matter also includes outting her intentions in reference to David Ruffin material that she is involved in. I more than gave her credit on my previous board, I didn't know I needed to keep the credits running. What I didn't know is to what level she will go to for notirioty. So having said all this, I won't graciously give her an "out", it's more like a doppler storm warning, "brace yourself!" (To heck with the spelling and I am not winking this time!) Which 'few family' members are you referring to Drex? Jr has a computer but Nedra doesn't. How do they feel about you posting their private business on the net to begin with? It's one thing for you & Addie having a spat and showing it to DR's 'family members' but did you also tell them that not just Addie, but you were also posting their personal business such as Cheryl's divorce decree and digging into her tax returns and Jr & Nedra's living situation? It's one thing to say that Addie had her own 'agenda' but it's quite another when you are also doing things that are not right. I refuse to get in the middle of a 'sisterly spat' and honestly don't know who's telling the truth but I do know one thing: that you have also put out too much personal info about David's children that should stay private. Thanks Common. When I first read this I thought drex was referring to "her" family members . What's obvious is she has chosen to involve other folks "family" members in her family spat. Another good point was she used this opportunity for a public vengence of a private family issue. I don't see how Addie posting that drex did in fact take "credit" for work she did qualifies as "public vengence of a private family issue". The mere fact that drex shows this thread to Ruffin family members shows the lenghts she will go to in an attempt to tip the scale in "her" favor. drex has divulged personal info about David's daughters and jr.on this board as well as her now defunt (and deservedly so) board. In another show-boating attempt to win over the trust of a couple of David's kids she throws her own damn sister under the bus. Although if I was Addie,I woudn't be overly concerned about the way drex protrays this incident to Nedra and jr. Lets face it,other than being the children of David Ruffin,there's nothing else about them that would or could influence anybody or deem them to be special. Neither of them have made any significant contribution to society. Are either of them even employed? According to drex words about them not living well,it seems they really haven't done anything to improve themselves. I think the fact that they are the children of David Ruffin impresses drex more than anybody else. Since drex has no reservation in speaking negatively about her own sister is proof positive that she is not above trying to cause conflict between the Ruffin heirs.
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Post by Common on Apr 20, 2006 8:30:09 GMT -5
Which 'few family' members are you referring to Drex? Jr has a computer but Nedra doesn't. How do they feel about you posting their private business on the net to begin with? It's one thing for you & Addie having a spat and showing it to DR's 'family members' but did you also tell them that not just Addie, but you were also posting their personal business such as Cheryl's divorce decree and digging into her tax returns and Jr & Nedra's living situation? It's one thing to say that Addie had her own 'agenda' but it's quite another when you are also doing things that are not right. I refuse to get in the middle of a 'sisterly spat' and honestly don't know who's telling the truth but I do know one thing: that you have also put out too much personal info about David's children that should stay private. Thanks Common. When I first read this I thought drex was referring to "her" family members . What's obvious is she has chosen to involve other folks "family" members in her family spat. Another good point was she used this opportunity for a public vengence of a private family issue. I don't see how Addie posting that drex did in fact take "credit" for work she did qualifies as "public vengence of a private family issue". The mere fact that drex shows this thread to Ruffin family members shows the lenghts she will go to in an attempt to tip the scale in "her" favor. drex has divulged personal info about David's daughters and jr.on this board as well as her now defunt (and deservedly so) board. In another show-boating attempt to win over the trust of a couple of David's kids she throws her own damn sister under the bus. Although if I was Addie,I woudn't be overly concerned about the way drex protrays this incident to Nedra and jr. Lets face it,other than being the children of David Ruffin,there's nothing else about them that would or could influence anybody or deem them to be special. Neither of them have made any significant contribution to society. Are either of them even employed? According to drex words about them not living well,it seems they really haven't done anything to improve themselves. I think the fact that they are the children of David Ruffin impresses drex more than anybody else. Since drex has no reservation in speaking negatively about her own sister is proof positive that she is not above trying to cause conflict between the Ruffin heirs. That's the thing, Davey. Two wrongs don't make it right. How is what Drex has done is somehow 'honorable' because she and Addie are fighting? I would hope that David's children will not be sucked into this fight between these two. As you pointed out, Drex put alot of this family's business on her two defunct boards as well as this one. Things are not all as they seem.
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Post by Queenie on Apr 20, 2006 8:38:00 GMT -5
Jr has a computer but Nedra doesn't.
Common waiting in line at the public library to use computer doesn't count! Jr. is unemployed where he is going to find the money to buy a computer? Royalty checks from "Gin and Juice" ran out the first day Jr. sign his name on the back of the check... Unless he pimp Drex to buy him a computer?
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Post by der68 on Apr 20, 2006 8:41:43 GMT -5
After a few of the family members and I had time to review this thread they brought up a good point, why did Addie only post a couple lines of my email to her and not its entirity?This is an IDIOTIC point acutally. WHY didn't you post your email in it's entirity? We all know you don't have a problem posting private emails. Good point. Another good point was she used this opportunity for a public vengence of a private family issue.Lets see.... Addie posted: This will be my last post here. My point I was trying to make is that Drex took credit ( and lied) about the work I had done. Not the first nor last time. I apologize for the harsh things I have said here to any of you. I was wrong. My first trips here were at the direction of Drex and a lot of the questions and remarks were fed to me from her. I once again apoligize and ask forgiveness from you all. Addie (Rhonda)
AND It is in your words where you took credit for it, I tried to give you an out but you wouldnt take it. You cant deny your own written words. (I promised I wouldnt be back on here but I waited to see how you were going to try and squirm out of this). Please, I have no further interest in this "investigation" since it got so ugly. These people here aren't as ignorant as you say they are.
VS YOUR POST: The real deal is, I am not going to allow anyone to help me if they are going to lie to gain information and say they are working on behalf of the Ruffin family. Period.AND and, to squash any confusion, this isn't about what she did in Detroit in reference to the probate issue...recently I was told she has her own separate agenda and is out claiming to be working for the Ruffin family. Sadly, it is what it is Beez, please check your email. It is self-explanatory
AND I have addressed it with Beez. And, BTW way (((Addie))) where are you? Cat got your tongue?AND The family matter also includes outting her intentions in reference to David Ruffin material that she is involved in.Seems to me that it is YOU that is in search of notoriety,and are GUILTY of posting a private matter. Addie posted about you taking credit for her work. You did indeed do that right here on this board. YOU however have taken this to another level with your post,your "reviewing" this with Ruffin family members,and email to Bees. The embarrassment of having Your own sister calling you a LIAR on a public forum has to be a hard pill to swallow. But none of your "off topic" post prove otherwise. PLUS we already thought you were a LIAR and a THIEF,so she didn't damage your reputation on this board. Your explanations are falling on deaf ears over here. Which cause the question of "WHY" are you posting this BS over here to be asked? WE DON'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOU,YOUR INVESTIGATION,OR YOUR FAMILY FEUD! Don't air this BS over here. We don't care!
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Post by Queenie on Apr 20, 2006 8:44:31 GMT -5
Thanks Common. When I first read this I thought drex was referring to "her" family members . What's obvious is she has chosen to involve other folks "family" members in her family spat. Another good point was she used this opportunity for a public vengence of a private family issue. I don't see how Addie posting that drex did in fact take "credit" for work she did qualifies as "public vengence of a private family issue". The mere fact that drex shows this thread to Ruffin family members shows the lenghts she will go to in an attempt to tip the scale in "her" favor. drex has divulged personal info about David's daughters and jr.on this board as well as her now defunt (and deservedly so) board. In another show-boating attempt to win over the trust of a couple of David's kids she throws her own damn sister under the bus. Although if I was Addie,I woudn't be overly concerned about the way drex protrays this incident to Nedra and jr. Lets face it,other than being the children of David Ruffin,there's nothing else about them that would or could influence anybody or deem them to be special. Neither of them have made any significant contribution to society. Are either of them even employed? According to drex words about them not living well,it seems they really haven't done anything to improve themselves. I think the fact that they are the children of David Ruffin impresses drex more than anybody else. Since drex has no reservation in speaking negatively about her own sister is proof positive that she is not above trying to cause conflict between the Ruffin heirs. That's the thing, Davey. Two wrongs don't make it right. How is what Drex has done is somehow 'honorable' because she and Addie are fighting? I would hope that David's children will not be sucked into this fight between these two. As you pointed out, Drex put alot of this family's business on her two defunct boards as well as this one. Things are not all as they seem. David's children are stupid to believe Hillbilly would have their best interest.... Everyone knows Drex is a snake only after her 15 minutes Hillbilly fun... children should have little more sense to tell overweight hillbilly FAT woman about their personal matters...
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Post by Common on Apr 20, 2006 8:46:57 GMT -5
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Post by der68 on Apr 20, 2006 8:53:55 GMT -5
Thanks Common. When I first read this I thought drex was referring to "her" family members . What's obvious is she has chosen to involve other folks "family" members in her family spat. Another good point was she used this opportunity for a public vengence of a private family issue. I don't see how Addie posting that drex did in fact take "credit" for work she did qualifies as "public vengence of a private family issue". The mere fact that drex shows this thread to Ruffin family members shows the lenghts she will go to in an attempt to tip the scale in "her" favor. drex has divulged personal info about David's daughters and jr.on this board as well as her now defunt (and deservedly so) board. In another show-boating attempt to win over the trust of a couple of David's kids she throws her own damn sister under the bus. Although if I was Addie,I woudn't be overly concerned about the way drex protrays this incident to Nedra and jr. Lets face it,other than being the children of David Ruffin,there's nothing else about them that would or could influence anybody or deem them to be special. Neither of them have made any significant contribution to society. Are either of them even employed? According to drex words about them not living well,it seems they really haven't done anything to improve themselves. I think the fact that they are the children of David Ruffin impresses drex more than anybody else. Since drex has no reservation in speaking negatively about her own sister is proof positive that she is not above trying to cause conflict between the Ruffin heirs. That's the thing, Davey. Two wrongs don't make it right. How is what Drex has done is somehow 'honorable' because she and Addie are fighting? I would hope that David's children will not be sucked into this fight between these two. As you pointed out, Drex put alot of this family's business on her two defunct boards as well as this one. Things are not all as they seem. Exactly!! Honorable and drex can't be used in the same sentence. We keep using the term "children" in reference to jr and nedra. Fact is neither are children! Both are close in age to drex. These are adults with I am sure have more pressing problems than a spat between drex and Addie. It's not over til the FAT woman sings. When the smoke clears they both will discover that drex is a liar and she will manipulate any situation for her own benefit.And if by some cruel act of fate they don't, WHO cares??? Like I said they have NO voice or power, they are the off spring of a celebrity,so are the ones drex has vilified. To repeat, drex seems to be the only one impressed with that.
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Post by der68 on Apr 20, 2006 8:58:32 GMT -5
That's the thing, Davey. Two wrongs don't make it right. How is what Drex has done is somehow 'honorable' because she and Addie are fighting? I would hope that David's children will not be sucked into this fight between these two. As you pointed out, Drex put alot of this family's business on her two defunct boards as well as this one. Things are not all as they seem. David's children are stupid to believe Hillbilly would have their best interest.... Everyone knows Drex is a snake only after her 15 minutes Hillbilly fun... children should have little more sense to tell overweight hillbilly FAT woman about their personal matters... LMAO!!! ((Queenie))) Maybe they are not stupid Maybe they are "playing" the game too. ;D ;D ;D If that's the case ...trust me It's drex that will get the short end of the stick. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Like Common said "Things ARE not always as they seem".
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Post by BroMan on Apr 20, 2006 11:26:39 GMT -5
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Post by Drex on Apr 20, 2006 11:48:30 GMT -5
After a few of the family members and I had time to review this thread they brought up a good point, why did Addie only post a couple lines of my email to her and not its entirity? Good point. Another good point was she used this opportunity for a public vengence of a private family issue. Hence the reason she didn't post all of my email. The family matter also includes outting her intentions in reference to David Ruffin material that she is involved in. I more than gave her credit on my previous board, I didn't know I needed to keep the credits running. What I didn't know is to what level she will go to for notirioty. So having said all this, I won't graciously give her an "out", it's more like a doppler storm warning, "brace yourself!" (To heck with the spelling and I am not winking this time!) Which 'few family' members are you referring to Drex? Jr has a computer but Nedra doesn't. How do they feel about you posting their private business on the net to begin with? It's one thing for you & Addie having a spat and showing it to DR's 'family members' but did you also tell them that not just Addie, but you were also posting their personal business such as Cheryl's divorce decree and digging into her tax returns and Jr & Nedra's living situation? It's one thing to say that Addie had her own 'agenda' but it's quite another when you are also doing things that are not right. I refuse to get in the middle of a 'sisterly spat' and honestly don't know who's telling the truth but I do know one thing: that you have also put out too much personal info about David's children that should stay private. "Our" family, hers and mine. And, if disclosing specific information means that exposing the fact that things might not be on the up & up, I'll (you did say me and not Addie right?) do it again in reference to your last sentence. But, that is where it stopped with me, provide or get the info out so "THEY" can do what they wish with the info. I have said it again and again, my reason for digging into this was not to "make a name or write a book." One of my children predicted in 2004 this would be the outcome, I wish I had of thought with my head and not my heart.
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Post by der68 on Apr 20, 2006 11:56:12 GMT -5
Which 'few family' members are you referring to Drex? Jr has a computer but Nedra doesn't. How do they feel about you posting their private business on the net to begin with? It's one thing for you & Addie having a spat and showing it to DR's 'family members' but did you also tell them that not just Addie, but you were also posting their personal business such as Cheryl's divorce decree and digging into her tax returns and Jr & Nedra's living situation? It's one thing to say that Addie had her own 'agenda' but it's quite another when you are also doing things that are not right. I refuse to get in the middle of a 'sisterly spat' and honestly don't know who's telling the truth but I do know one thing: that you have also put out too much personal info about David's children that should stay private. "Our" family, hers and mine. And, if disclosing specific information means that exposing the fact that things might not be on the up & up, I'll (you did say me and not Addie right?) do it again in reference to your last sentence. But, that is where it stopped with me, provide or get the info out so "THEY" can do what they wish with the info. I have said it again and again, my reason for digging into this was not to "make a name or write a book." One of my children predicted in 2004 this would be the outcome, I wish I had of thought with my head and not my heart. I can understand your showing "your" family. drex although we (you and I) have had a falling out of sorts. I wish you and your sister would put this behind you. I wish I had a sister. Is any of this worth dividing your family?
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Post by Common on Apr 20, 2006 12:28:24 GMT -5
Which 'few family' members are you referring to Drex? Jr has a computer but Nedra doesn't. How do they feel about you posting their private business on the net to begin with? It's one thing for you & Addie having a spat and showing it to DR's 'family members' but did you also tell them that not just Addie, but you were also posting their personal business such as Cheryl's divorce decree and digging into her tax returns and Jr & Nedra's living situation? It's one thing to say that Addie had her own 'agenda' but it's quite another when you are also doing things that are not right. I refuse to get in the middle of a 'sisterly spat' and honestly don't know who's telling the truth but I do know one thing: that you have also put out too much personal info about David's children that should stay private. "Our" family, hers and mine. And, if disclosing specific information means that exposing the fact that things might not be on the up & up, I'll (you did say me and not Addie right?) do it again in reference to your last sentence. But, that is where it stopped with me, provide or get the info out so "THEY" can do what they wish with the info. I have said it again and again, my reason for digging into this was not to "make a name or write a book." One of my children predicted in 2004 this would be the outcome, I wish I had of thought with my head and not my heart. No. Drex, I also said Addie as well as it pertains to displaying the family's personal information. I think you read my post too fast. Anyway, I honestly thought this was some joke between you and Addie. I see it isn't. I truly feel sorry that you and your sister are feuding with each other. Maybe one day, both of you will come to a mutual understanding and both of you will leave it all behind. Life is too short.
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