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Post by EmergingRuffian on Aug 17, 2006 15:51:08 GMT -5
I'm the real widow Ruffin. Ruffin appeared to me in a vision at the bottom of my cereal bowl after I finished my fruit loops. He told me to take his name and monitor message boards in order to preserve our legacy of love with one another! Please refer to me as ER the widow Ruffin. Listen to my great stories of love, passion and house shoes. Please defer to me in all of your posts by beginning each post with "Thank you ER, the only widow Ruffin, for allowing us to post in a manner that suits you and only you". ER you'll be happy to know that Jody has this caption under her pic of her and David..grinning in a hotel All photos are copyrighted by me, and are not to be copied/posted online or anywhere, without your permission. so with your permission you can continue to bastardize ;D ;D ;D Well I do declare, I will certainly take advantage of this most glorious opportunity!
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Post by Brandy on Aug 18, 2006 11:39:02 GMT -5
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Post by SarahLee on Aug 18, 2006 13:08:20 GMT -5
Thanx Brandy. Good stuff in that thread! Molly posted: ((Merry)) I agree with much of want you said. However like everything else there are two sides to each confrontation. There are instance’s where post are made IMO just to get Jody to come here and respond. In her attempt to “save face” or in her words offer a “rebuttal” a thread sometimes gets totally out of control. There are also instances where Jody interjects her self into discussions that have absolutely nothing to do with her. Knowing full well what is going to happen. I agree that most of the threads made to and about Jody am demeaning and nasty. I myself have contributed to some of these posts. But likewise Jody’s posts are not that well meaning either. You can not force someone to like or respect you. As you correctly stated she was “banned” so there shouldn’t be an instance where she should post here anyways. Many of these board members have been discussed by Jody at DRU; however you won’t see threads of 50 plus pages over there, because nobody goes over there to respond to her. The language does get colorful over here at times, and I agree that there are children who do read this board. We have as members two young people over here. However nothing is said over here that they do not hear through their head sets or via television on videos. Not only that, this is an adult forum. All ages are welcome because this is a public forum, but it’s not intended to be a children’s forum. Although you can find more explicit language used on boards that are geared towards younger people, then is used here. There are many topics discussed here that are not suitable for children, that have nothing to do with Jody. I have read other Tempt boards where members post are of a sexual nature that I feel are inappropriate, but these are adults speaking to other adults. With that being said in a perfect world no one would ever post a derogatory statement or use any form of profanity,or sexual fantasy. We would not **, or xx out some of the letter’s in an attempt to disguise our use of profanity. But unfortunately that is not the case. There are real people sitting behind these PC’s expressing themselves on message boards the same way they express themselves in “real” life. I know I would not appreciate being on the receiving end of any of these names. But I would not convo with people that felt that way about me. It is indeed a matter of respect. First of all self respect in not allowing anyone to treat you in that manner. Secondly respecting the wishes of the board’s moderator. Being banned and continually posting is tantamount to being kicked out of someone’s house or business and refusing to leave. Or coming home and finding this same person cooking naked in your kitchen. Bee’s has deleted numerous threads as well as stepped in when she deemed it necessary. So I agree with you, she does work hard over here. She just doesn’t monitor or censor every post. She also doesn’t ban posters just because she can. She had to have some reason to ban Jody. Whatever her reasoning, it should be respected. It’s her board. If Jody didn’t post here she would not be jumped. It’s that simple. If you Know you're being BAITED why take the bait? If she can’t control her own actions (by coming here because her name is called), she certainly can not control any ones’ action or language over here.
ER I know you tried very hard to bury this thread, I promise I did not BOT it.
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Post by SarahLee on Aug 18, 2006 13:09:36 GMT -5
Bees posted: I think you have just about summed it up, Molly. Not much I can add. I have advised everyone on how I feel about this type of behavior; but I also realize that I am here as an administrator/moderator...not a babysitter. I used to try and clean up the board by deleting and trying to intervene. I am not going to do it anymore. I am going to leave it on the board for the www to see how well behaved we are. I refused to have my board on lockdown where people cannot post unless they are registered. There is no point in having a board if you don't want others to post there. I can't see how these posts have gone on as long as they have. I can't afford to participate in them cuz my nerves are entirely too bad. I would have, by now, found myself pounding on someone's door telling them to come on with it! I can only talk sh*t for so long...sooner or later I would have to take action. There is no way in hell, someone would talk to me any kind of way and I kept posting. So, until someone gets tired of getting their head :bonk: :bonk: :bonk: this type of behavior will continue. All I can say is I hope all of the participants are enjoying themselves, cuz one day soon, the opportunity may no longer present itself. Carry ON!
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Post by SarahLee on Aug 18, 2006 13:10:56 GMT -5
jody posted: Marge, you said, {There are also instances where Jody interjects her self into discussions that have absolutely nothing to do with her. Knowing full well what is going to happen.} Is this not a forum where people are invited to voice their opinion on a subject, whether it has anything to do with that person or not? I also have been accused of not participating in subjects other than David and myself. Which way should I have done it Marge? I simply joined in the conversation. I also voiced my opinion in conversations that were degrading other people. The reason being IMHO there is too much of that hateful bantering going on day to day in the world. It can't help a person, so why do it? (LOVE and a kind word does wonders), I apologize if I misunderstood the reason for being on a forum such as the Palace. Because of knowing what you would do, I grant you, I should have stayed away. I just do not agree with dogging a person for the sake of fun...It is also my right to rebuttal. That is what we strive to keep in America, Freedom of Speech...That Freedom of Speech, also gives you and others the right to banter. Thus the reason for the Palace and other forums, to talk it back and forth. The problem, it does not stop at talking it over at the Palace. It gets down right mean...I am sorry Marge.
WHAT rights does a person have? NONE!!!!
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Post by Brandy on Aug 18, 2006 13:12:34 GMT -5
Thanx Brandy. Good stuff in that thread! Molly posted: ((Merry)) I agree with much of want you said. However like everything else there are two sides to each confrontation. There are instance’s where post are made IMO just to get Jody to come here and respond. In her attempt to “save face” or in her words offer a “rebuttal” a thread sometimes gets totally out of control. There are also instances where Jody interjects her self into discussions that have absolutely nothing to do with her. Knowing full well what is going to happen. I agree that most of the threads made to and about Jody am demeaning and nasty. I myself have contributed to some of these posts. But likewise Jody’s posts are not that well meaning either. You can not force someone to like or respect you. As you correctly stated she was “banned” so there shouldn’t be an instance where she should post here anyways. Many of these board members have been discussed by Jody at DRU; however you won’t see threads of 50 plus pages over there, because nobody goes over there to respond to her. The language does get colorful over here at times, and I agree that there are children who do read this board. We have as members two young people over here. However nothing is said over here that they do not hear through their head sets or via television on videos. Not only that, this is an adult forum. All ages are welcome because this is a public forum, but it’s not intended to be a children’s forum. Although you can find more explicit language used on boards that are geared towards younger people, then is used here. There are many topics discussed here that are not suitable for children, that have nothing to do with Jody. I have read other Tempt boards where members post are of a sexual nature that I feel are inappropriate, but these are adults speaking to other adults. With that being said in a perfect world no one would ever post a derogatory statement or use any form of profanity,or sexual fantasy. We would not **, or xx out some of the letter’s in an attempt to disguise our use of profanity. But unfortunately that is not the case. There are real people sitting behind these PC’s expressing themselves on message boards the same way they express themselves in “real” life. I know I would not appreciate being on the receiving end of any of these names. But I would not convo with people that felt that way about me. It is indeed a matter of respect. First of all self respect in not allowing anyone to treat you in that manner. Secondly respecting the wishes of the board’s moderator. Being banned and continually posting is tantamount to being kicked out of someone’s house or business and refusing to leave. Or coming home and finding this same person cooking naked in your kitchen. Bee’s has deleted numerous threads as well as stepped in when she deemed it necessary. So I agree with you, she does work hard over here. She just doesn’t monitor or censor every post. She also doesn’t ban posters just because she can. She had to have some reason to ban Jody. Whatever her reasoning, it should be respected. It’s her board. If Jody didn’t post here she would not be jumped. It’s that simple. If you Know you're being BAITED why take the bait? If she can’t control her own actions (by coming here because her name is called), she certainly can not control any ones’ action or language over here.
ER I know you tried very hard to bury this thread, I promise I did not BOT it.
Thank you SL I find it so odd that Jody called a member here Genna KNOWING that's not Genna and KNOWING she communicates with Genna in email and myspace etc..
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Post by SarahLee on Aug 18, 2006 13:15:12 GMT -5
Molly posted: Jody we all know how you have been talked to. I tried to make that point in my post to merry. I also tried to make the point that Nothing said here should have "Lured" you back,because you have been banned. A fact that you seem to disregard. You can't keep anybody from saying your name or talking about you none of us can,and your coming back only resulted in your being degraded again. IF you came back because and I quote "My name as well as Drex, was brought into this forum. That is why I came over once again." Then WHY are you now posting in other threads as if you are still a member? So that particular excuse doesn't ring true. Evidently you do enjoy being embarrassed. One thing I know is we can't change a person's perception of us. Nothing you say or do is going to change that. Neither is playing the "woe is me" role. When you speak about other's at DRU,who comes over there to respond? You want your name left out of our discussions yet you put other people's names in your discussions. Jody quite frankly after your threat to SUE Bees, I don't know how you have the nerve to come back over here. If you continue to come here then more then likely you will continue to be disrespected. It's that simple. You have to make a choice to ignore what is being said over here or continue to be clowned on the www. Your actions suggest that you feel a sense of Entitlement where this board is concerned,simply because you were here before many of us. This board is the expression of another person's Love and Admiration for Ruffin.(Bees)Not to mention the effort and work she has expended to make HER board a place of rememberance for Ruffin. Frankly put it has nothing to do with you. Create your own board for Ruffin. Then you can control what people say. You can't do it here,and the sooner you accept that the better you will feel. You shouldn't want to contine to post on a board where you have been Banned. Or post to and with people that don't want to be bothered with you. I'm through with it. All that's on you.
If Jody didn’t post here she would not be jumped
I will say this publically, I REGRET THE DAY I EVER READ AT THE P, AND THE FIRST TIME I EVER POSTED THERE! Another lie that didn't have to be told! YOU'RE still reading over here!
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Post by SarahLee on Aug 18, 2006 13:21:18 GMT -5
Thank you SL I find it so odd that Jody called a member here Genna KNOWING that's not Genna and KNOWING she communicates with Genna in email and myspace etc.. Exactly! Hasn't she accused Queenie many times of being genna?? or G's friend?
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Post by Brandy on Aug 18, 2006 14:05:56 GMT -5
Thank you SL I find it so odd that Jody called a member here Genna KNOWING that's not Genna and KNOWING she communicates with Genna in email and myspace etc.. Exactly! Hasn't she accused Queenie many times of being genna?? or G's friend? She sure did and the proof is in the threads ;D ;D
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