Post by ruffinlove on Apr 17, 2006 5:44:02 GMT -5
Jody.
Dear Jody i would like to write this letter to you..i wont curse at you (as i have in the past) and i dont intend to disrespect you in this letter..but let me explain something to you and i can only HOPE that you will get some sort of an understanding....
You come to the David Ruffin Royal Palace many many times and post (as a banned member),you were a member of this board way before i even knew about it.but thats not even important as iam here now and thats all that counts....i came to this marvelous MB to honor MY favorite guy ;D ,to laugh(at funny memories) and to speak about his great talent..in the midst of my being here i could not help but to notice YOU,your constant complaining and constant lack of character and integrity...when i first came here i wanted to know what my fellow palace family members were talking about in regards to you and like an average human being i asked "who is Jody" as i have stated before to you ,to not be a bandwagon jumper i went on to find out for myself and while i must add it was quite easy because you have left your footprints all over this place.
i felt the need to explain to you my lack of respect for you (not that you would or should care) but i donot get in the business of telling someone off and them not knowing the reason if you will.....i have seen quite a few number of lies told by you on THIS very board ,i have seen you in ways when you donot get your way ,when someone does not agree with you ,and i have seen your response to the such...for example you posting peoples private IM's to you ,you posting private things people say to you in PRIVATE ,i have seen you curse (while claming that you were NOT raised that way) ..Jody if i may say you have shown yourself not to be a very trusting person ,not an open minded person willing to take peoples opposing views on anything else if they donot agree with you.
I have my very own opinion on you ,and might i add it is soley based on what any knowledgeable ,understadning person would have ...answer me this please Jody put yourself in my shoes ,or anyone else shoes for that matter and tell me would you even think even conversating and or getting to know a person like you? (no disrespect intended) or even continue to retain a friendship such as yours?
Jody its ok if someone does not believe you ,its totally ok ,you cannot make anyone believe you or want to believe you,once again you have shown yourself not to be a very trusting person at all angles....
in the words of Michael Jackson ,Jody please pick up a mirror and take a look at yourself and make that change,iam not saying to change who you are as a person..but certain aspect of who you are as a person...
I know that you have been banned not only from this MB....and may i ask did you ever stop and think to yourself that its just you?.Jody everybody on the net are not crazy ,noone wants to banned you just for the sake of it.
you talk alot about your Chapter in David Ruffins life,while that is all well and good,but you donot seem to recognize YOUR own chapter,segment,or maybe even apprearence in Davids life and stay there and appreciate whatever memories you have..Jody as much as you would hate that i say it ,but you do very much in fact try to make it way more than it actually is/was...in someways comming off as forcing it on people if you will.
you come on this MB and somehow find your way to posting when things really donot have anything to do with you hence the current Addie and Drex situation...this iam inclined to believe is just a way/excuse to post here.
so in my previous statement to you in regards to changing some of your ways perhaps you would not have been banned from Boards. ..
Jody you and only you have burned your bridge. while i donot know you and donot wish to know anymore about you.i only know what YOU have shown yourself to be and i must say its quite a handful..but as iam to understand you once were a member ,you once were in communication with people here,and you only you have destroyed it, and its NOT because as you have said" you stood up for yourself" ,simply because you have shown no kind of loyalty ,integrity and respect towards people .....you see Jody its sort of like a domino effect in a little way(if you can picture it) ,noone initially just had no respect for you,you made it so ,the people here (including my self in the mix) just put you back in place when you are out of it.. you are not a victim Jody,you are simply not...you seem to enjoy doing and saying certain things,and when someone straigtens you out,you tend to hit the low road ,and carry on with your unacceptable ways. Really take a look at yourself and see it for what it is ,see the big picture...Now Jody i guess out of all what i have posted what iam saying is really quite simple,and it is what everyone else has been saying for a long time now ....the best thing for you to do is to just keep your distance,if you want to lurk here and read to contribute more to your journal so be it ,we acknowledge we cannot do anything about it nor do we want to do anything about it..however posting when things have absolutely nothing to do with you ,or posting when someone mentions your name is really senseless,and a waste of time.its not you comming to post to rebuttal any lies that you claim are being said about you,its more of you just wanting to post here....everything the members here have said about you are TRUE and how you may ask? simply because you have put yourself out there to be known. ..so by all means with this being said think about this,soak it up like a sponge,i know i may have written this in vain,but i as a member felt the need to express myself on this
BeesNVme,iam sorry for posting this long ,and possibly waste of time post as i know you are fedup with the mess..this is in no way to start any trouble ,more of an informative thing so please excuse me.
Thank you.
Dear Jody i would like to write this letter to you..i wont curse at you (as i have in the past) and i dont intend to disrespect you in this letter..but let me explain something to you and i can only HOPE that you will get some sort of an understanding....
You come to the David Ruffin Royal Palace many many times and post (as a banned member),you were a member of this board way before i even knew about it.but thats not even important as iam here now and thats all that counts....i came to this marvelous MB to honor MY favorite guy ;D ,to laugh(at funny memories) and to speak about his great talent..in the midst of my being here i could not help but to notice YOU,your constant complaining and constant lack of character and integrity...when i first came here i wanted to know what my fellow palace family members were talking about in regards to you and like an average human being i asked "who is Jody" as i have stated before to you ,to not be a bandwagon jumper i went on to find out for myself and while i must add it was quite easy because you have left your footprints all over this place.
i felt the need to explain to you my lack of respect for you (not that you would or should care) but i donot get in the business of telling someone off and them not knowing the reason if you will.....i have seen quite a few number of lies told by you on THIS very board ,i have seen you in ways when you donot get your way ,when someone does not agree with you ,and i have seen your response to the such...for example you posting peoples private IM's to you ,you posting private things people say to you in PRIVATE ,i have seen you curse (while claming that you were NOT raised that way) ..Jody if i may say you have shown yourself not to be a very trusting person ,not an open minded person willing to take peoples opposing views on anything else if they donot agree with you.
I have my very own opinion on you ,and might i add it is soley based on what any knowledgeable ,understadning person would have ...answer me this please Jody put yourself in my shoes ,or anyone else shoes for that matter and tell me would you even think even conversating and or getting to know a person like you? (no disrespect intended) or even continue to retain a friendship such as yours?
Jody its ok if someone does not believe you ,its totally ok ,you cannot make anyone believe you or want to believe you,once again you have shown yourself not to be a very trusting person at all angles....
in the words of Michael Jackson ,Jody please pick up a mirror and take a look at yourself and make that change,iam not saying to change who you are as a person..but certain aspect of who you are as a person...
I know that you have been banned not only from this MB....and may i ask did you ever stop and think to yourself that its just you?.Jody everybody on the net are not crazy ,noone wants to banned you just for the sake of it.
you talk alot about your Chapter in David Ruffins life,while that is all well and good,but you donot seem to recognize YOUR own chapter,segment,or maybe even apprearence in Davids life and stay there and appreciate whatever memories you have..Jody as much as you would hate that i say it ,but you do very much in fact try to make it way more than it actually is/was...in someways comming off as forcing it on people if you will.
you come on this MB and somehow find your way to posting when things really donot have anything to do with you hence the current Addie and Drex situation...this iam inclined to believe is just a way/excuse to post here.
so in my previous statement to you in regards to changing some of your ways perhaps you would not have been banned from Boards. ..
Jody you and only you have burned your bridge. while i donot know you and donot wish to know anymore about you.i only know what YOU have shown yourself to be and i must say its quite a handful..but as iam to understand you once were a member ,you once were in communication with people here,and you only you have destroyed it, and its NOT because as you have said" you stood up for yourself" ,simply because you have shown no kind of loyalty ,integrity and respect towards people .....you see Jody its sort of like a domino effect in a little way(if you can picture it) ,noone initially just had no respect for you,you made it so ,the people here (including my self in the mix) just put you back in place when you are out of it.. you are not a victim Jody,you are simply not...you seem to enjoy doing and saying certain things,and when someone straigtens you out,you tend to hit the low road ,and carry on with your unacceptable ways. Really take a look at yourself and see it for what it is ,see the big picture...Now Jody i guess out of all what i have posted what iam saying is really quite simple,and it is what everyone else has been saying for a long time now ....the best thing for you to do is to just keep your distance,if you want to lurk here and read to contribute more to your journal so be it ,we acknowledge we cannot do anything about it nor do we want to do anything about it..however posting when things have absolutely nothing to do with you ,or posting when someone mentions your name is really senseless,and a waste of time.its not you comming to post to rebuttal any lies that you claim are being said about you,its more of you just wanting to post here....everything the members here have said about you are TRUE and how you may ask? simply because you have put yourself out there to be known. ..so by all means with this being said think about this,soak it up like a sponge,i know i may have written this in vain,but i as a member felt the need to express myself on this
BeesNVme,iam sorry for posting this long ,and possibly waste of time post as i know you are fedup with the mess..this is in no way to start any trouble ,more of an informative thing so please excuse me.
Thank you.