der68
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Post by der68 on Apr 18, 2006 8:25:28 GMT -5
Also Ruff, Jody is a theif..she lifted BEES's email addy and gave it to DREX... I just want to put that out there.. Not to mention she also shared personal pictures of Common with drex nem. When it was (((Common))) that sent her CD's of David's music,(she had none or very little) videos of his performances, Genna's book ,and even gave her Jimmy Ruffin's email addy. And that's just what I know about. Common probably gave her MORE than I have listed. Now you may ask,What did Joyce send (Common).......NOTHING but those tired ass pictures that she gives to any and everybody. Methinks that was a one-sided friendship. ;D ;D I almost forgot...that web cast was priceless. ;D ;D ;D ;D So she did give (Common) a good laugh! ;D ;D ;D
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Post by der68 on Apr 18, 2006 8:57:21 GMT -5
I told her from the beginning I wasn't going to be a part of her "girl friend" club. ;D ;D ;D She tried that same BS with genna. Reggie posted on dru,Joyce got his email addy from that site,and began to email him like a damn fool. She sent him pictures and of course sent him copies of post from the old board to show him how evil we were.(Lawd! you should have seen some of those emails) ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D She talked about me like a dawg,not knowing that Reggie and I were good friends, ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D. ANYBODY that she feels had any contact or relationship with David she stalks. When I came to the old Palace,she was "thanking" Molly for being David's friend. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Molly knew David eons before Joyce. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D and after. I have never doubted that she knew David and was intimate with him. I just pointed out using her own words that she was more of an booty call than a woman. I wasn't the only one that thought it, ;D ;D I was just the first one to say it. ;D ;D This I surmised after reading Her own words. She posted that David saw her at his convience,and she never put any demands on his time. "It was up to him",I believe she said. She also said David never helped her financially . I'm sure she has those post(she copies them all) Maybe she will post that one. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Tell me,What does that sound like? THEN when she made a thread on this very board about David's Favorite things, I knew without a doubt that she was making it up as she went along. Reggie finally cursed her ass out,so did his wife. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Actually MOST of the things she posted about his feelings for her is what she claims Jimmy told her. Jimmy said "David respected her" ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D He couldn't tell her that David loved her,so that meant so much to her. Affirmation is what she seeks,but she hasn't and probably will never attain it! Her memories should be enough for her,but they aren't. She wants his fans and friends to accept and acknowlege her.Like they do Sandra,Tammi, Diane and yes even Genna. But that's not going to happen. She can't accept that fact.
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Post by ruffinlove on Apr 18, 2006 10:05:06 GMT -5
look at this scenerio she says "dont post my name and i wont come back",here is a WHOLE thread to her with her name all over it ,and she cant show her face,instead all up in a thread that has NOTHING absolutely NOTHING to do with her. .wow
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Post by ruffinlove on Apr 18, 2006 10:07:55 GMT -5
I have seen all of this ,i seen how she did Common , and its quite obvious that she only responds to people that knew David ,that were actually something to him ,this is where the conclusion comes of her wanting some sort of acceptance from you ,Molly,Bees,and Reggie, i seen jody wanting acceptance so bad that she even compares this to African americans fighting for whats rightfully ours,as if any of what we had to go through goes hand in hand with her nonsense..you see i say nonsense not to be disrespectful but because it is what it is ,NONSENSE. Jody to me personally is a walking contradiction,what gives her any right to email and force herself on people she does not even know. i have seen Reggie post about her talking about you(der68) like a dog,and it totally back fired on her ,because you and Reggie are friends ,how silly does that make this grown woman look?...i seen when Molly said when ever Jody emailed her is was nothing but questions about you (Der68), sounds a little like jealousy mixed with a little bit of obbsession...whether jody wants to believe it or not ,she needs help. you see readers ,read this board daily ,i know how Bees must feel for them to have to see this nonsense when reading,its not Jodys Royal palace, noone wants to have to constantly see this all the time..any on looker will see Jody for what she is RIGHT AWAY ,look at how she presents herself, Der68 i see that you said in the corrections thread that she says "yall turned new members agaisnt her" which Jody i have to say is NOT SO ,you turned new members against YOU. think about it.i dont know anyone on this board as much as you once did...I as a grown woman operating on a brain ,saw you for what you really are..now any sensible person would discard any friendship they ever had with you.which some of the members here has done.as i have said before you destroyed it ,only you. you have to understand NOONE knew about you until you made yourself be known,now think about that long and hard.
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Post by ruffinlove on Apr 18, 2006 10:11:39 GMT -5
Also Ruff, Jody is a theif..she lifted BEES's email addy and gave it to DREX... I just want to put that out there.. Not to mention she also shared personal pictures of Common with drex nem. When it was (((Common))) that sent her CD's of David's music,(she had none or very little) videos of his performances, Genna's book ,and even gave her Jimmy Ruffin's email addy. And that's just what I know about. Common probably gave her MORE than I have listed. Now you may ask,What did Joyce send (Common).......NOTHING but those tired ass pictures that she gives to any and everybody. Methinks that was a one-sided friendship. ;D ;D I almost forgot...that web cast was priceless. ;D ;D ;D ;D So she did give (Common) a good laugh! ;D ;D ;D God bless Common for doing all that stuff for her.thats part of what TRUE friedship is about which i think is crazy that someone that supposedly knew David and loved him so much ,has close to nothing about him ...
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Post by ruffinlove on Apr 18, 2006 10:33:26 GMT -5
Bottom line is this,take YOUR memories with you and David appreciate it for what it WAS and enjoy it.what is comming to the board trying to rebuttal "lies" going to do ,no on even knows you ,so you cant say you are trying to defend your name, just sit back relax,add to your journal live,.live on you are still breathing arent you?..take god up on his gift to you(life) and live ,dont be stuck on someone that left you years before he has passed. you can still love David ,but you can also move on in life. so quit the childish nonsense. i deff know what i have said ,has been said to you MILLIONS of times.iam just thinking how long will it be before you actually take note and listen. its been 3 years ,you are on a roll here. (this is not a low blow or insult its factual)
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molly
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Post by molly on Apr 18, 2006 12:14:44 GMT -5
Not to mention she also shared personal pictures of Common with drex nem. When it was (((Common))) that sent her CD's of David's music,(she had none or very little) videos of his performances, Genna's book ,and even gave her Jimmy Ruffin's email addy. And that's just what I know about. Common probably gave her MORE than I have listed. Now you may ask,What did Joyce send (Common).......NOTHING but those tired ass pictures that she gives to any and everybody. Methinks that was a one-sided friendship. ;D ;D I almost forgot...that web cast was priceless. ;D ;D ;D ;D So she did give (Common) a good laugh! ;D ;D ;D God bless Common for doing all that stuff for her.thats part of what TRUE friedship is about which i think is crazy that someone that supposedly knew David and loved him so much ,has close to nothing about him ... Common was good to her. She even went as far as to defend her on another board(Soulful Detroit). When DER came to the old Palace,she and jody bumped heads many,many times. Nobody took sides, When Bees posted about the arguments she posted to everybody. At that time I hadn't Blocked her from my email and I've told her many times Leave that woman alone.(speaking of Davey). Jody was clearly NO match for her. Davey sure wasn't easy. jody, I believe thought we should all come to her aid against Davey,but my thing was if you start some s**t,then hell finish it. If you can't finish it,then leave it the hell alone. She definitely couldn't finish it. LOL! Getting back to the sharing of pictures. The first pictures I ever saw of jody,were sent to me by jody. Common had pictures of jody long before I did,but she never ever shared them. jody shared Common's though. jody even forwarded me personal emails that Common had sent her. . When they were supposed to have been friends. I told jody I wasn't comfortable with it,and she stopped. I say this to show the type of "friend/person" she really is or was. If it wasn't for Common I would have never even tried to get to know her.(yeah Common I'm blaming you LOL!). I thought she was a nice person initially,but I later found her to be confrontational,sneaky,and obsessive. Oh! and crazy! LOL! I never doubted that she knew Ruffin,I never cared one way or the other. But she behaved as if we should have held her in "higher" esteem because of her "relationship" with him. Please!!!! It's was too damn many Just like her! Anyhow,I don't think she can accept being kicked off of a board that bears his name. No matter How she's treated. It's sad!
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Post by molly on Apr 18, 2006 12:35:59 GMT -5
Bottom line is this,take YOUR memories with you and David appreciate it for what it WAS and enjoy it.what is comming to the board trying to rebuttal "lies" going to do ,no on even knows you ,so you cant say you are trying to defend your name, just sit back relax,add to your journal live
That's it in a nutshell ruffinlove. They are her memories and if people don't believe her so what? If she knows it's true why is she worrying about what anybody else thinks? I wouldn't waste a second of my time trying to convince somebody that I was telling the truth. She feels "her" memories of Ruffin will conteract what genna wrote about him. But NOBODY knows about her, and this was the case when he was alive. It wasn't like he 'showed" her off,or even introduced her to people. We (jody and I)were at the same event,and Ruffin didn't introduce her to me or any of his other friends that were there,but he bought Davey to my home. So it's understandable that everybody isn't going to believe her. It doesn't mean everything she says is a lie, it's just some things she says are far fetched. She needs to accept her defeat gracefully and stop coming to this board.
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Post by Brandy on Apr 18, 2006 12:57:22 GMT -5
Dr.Loomis can tell you why she's nuts ;D Dr.loomis is saying"I was told there was nothing left. No reason, no conscience, no understanding; even the most rudimentary sense of life or death, good or evil, right or wrong."
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Post by ruffinlove on Apr 18, 2006 13:10:00 GMT -5
you know Der68 pointed out that she(jody) in fact said that David saw her on his own time,and that it was "up to him" and he didnt help her financially...tell me with her story(the one she wrote) and her quotes like that ,what is any sensible person to think of that relationship?she more or less TOLD what this "relationship" consist of. again it was what it was-----call,but thats neither here nor there,problem is Jody trying to get in to other relationships REAL relationships that David had with other women ,and it seems that its a jealousy thing...Molly you make a great point so what if people donot believe her so what ,i have seen jody say quite a bit of times "i dont have to prove it"..but her post tells another story think about it ,Jody always has to rebuttal,and she does in fact try to prove her "relationship" with david,but nothing she says is proven to be a REAL relationship that she had with him,IF Jody could prove that she had a relationship of the level that she claims to have had with him TRUST she would have ages ago.meaning if she could prove what she would like many of us to believe she would ,but she cant ,she tries but she cant.simply because there isnt much ,or nothing there to prove.
speaking on my behalf i gotta be honest i dont believe the exaggerated hype of what she proclaims to have been a relationship with David.BUT again so what if i dont believe her. all Jody needs is her memories and thats it.
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Post by ruffinlove on Apr 18, 2006 13:26:45 GMT -5
"Her memories should be enough for her,but they aren't. She wants his fans and friends to accept and acknowlege her.Like they do Sandra,Tammi, Diane and yes even Genna. But that's not going to happen. She can't accept that fact."
Der68 i agree strongly with this statement.....well except Geena part i dont acknowledge her.lol
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Post by BroMan on Apr 18, 2006 13:34:42 GMT -5
Datz whi I dunt undastan whi she dunt noes whut sise feat he had. . I betcha he kickted hur azz wit dem feat. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
speaking on my behalf i gotta be honest i dont believe the exaggerated hype of what she proclaims to have been a relationship with David.BUT again so what if i dont believe her. all Jody needs is her memories and thats it.
Noe I dunt beleeve dat BS eitha. But den I dunt beleeve Queenie aint wantin me eitha.
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Post by Joy on Apr 18, 2006 16:55:22 GMT -5
Dang Jody sharing peeps personal emails and pics, without them knowing is low. WHY DID YOU DO IT JODY?
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Post by Morning Sun on Apr 18, 2006 20:44:57 GMT -5
Ruff, we all had "Open Letters Jody" the problem is Jody has her own agenda...trying to make us all believe she was DERs lover... Jody had been going at this for what 2,3,4 years now? its not normal. its really not normal...... AND YOU ARE SAYING IT IS NORMAL THAT THE REST OF YOU HAVE BEEN GOING AT IT FOR THE SAME AMOUNT OF TIME? ?? WANT ME TO POST THE POST THAT REALLY STARTED THIS? IT WAS NOT ME!!!!ALSO, I WILL ASK YOU KINDLY, SHOW ALL OF US WHERE I HAVE CURSED!!!!! I HAVE YET TO CALL YOU A WHORE, BOOTY CALL, BITCH, ETC!!!!! ALSO, SHOW ME WHERE I HAVE TOLD A LIE ON THIS BOARD!!!!!!! PROVE IT!!!!!!!!! FIRST OF ALL RL, YOU WERE NOT HERE ON THE OLDER BOARDS WHEN EVERYTHING WAS WONDERFUL. IF YOU KNEW WHAT STARTED THIS MESS, YOUR THOUGHTS MIGHT BE CLEARLY DIFFERENT. MY MISTAKE IS THAT I CARED ENOUGH TO TRY AND STRAIGHTEN IT OUT THROUGH REBUTTALS. ANYONE THAT REALLY KNOWS ME, KNOWS THAT I HAVE TRIED TO BE A LADY THROUGH THOSE REBUTTALS. I HAVE NOT CALLED PEOPLE THINGS I HAVE BEEN CALLED. YOU KNOW WHAT, YOUR OPEN LETTER TO JODY, MEANT NOTHING. IF IT HAD BEEN WRITTEN WITH RESPECT, AND TRYING TO UNDERSTAND WHAT REALLY HAPPENED, I COULD ACCEPT IT! YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO BELIEVE THE RANTINGS OF A FEW. GO FOR IT.
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Post by Morning Sun on Apr 18, 2006 20:52:56 GMT -5
Dang Jody sharing peeps personal emails and pics, without them knowing is low. WHY DID YOU DO IT JODY? PERSONAL PICS SHARED? ?I ONLY HAVE THREE, AND THEY WERE SEEN IN MY HOUSE. I HAD PRINTED THEM. (((I THOUGHT THEY WERE FRIENDS))) E-MAILS? THAT HAS BEEN DONE TO ME!!!!!! THE MAIN PEOPLE INVOLVED HERE, HAVE SENT ME FORWARED E-MAILS. THAT IS MORE OF THEIR BS... I SENT A PERSONAL E-MAIL TO MARGE, BECAUSE SOMEONE WAS LYING ON MY AGAIN. BY THE WAY, THEY HAVE SHARED MY PERSONAL E-MAILS WITH EACH OTHER MANY TIMES. WHY DID THEY DO THAT???
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