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Post by BroMan on Jan 1, 2010 23:11:27 GMT -5
OK I really would rather this particular topic die however I'm going to ask and I"ll take whatever anyone's opinion is as such. The facts: I rode to DR's funeral in the limo provided to QB's family. I was grateful to have had the invitation extended to me to ride with them so that I didn't have to go alone. I knew from the funeral home that there would be huge crowds and it was a bit more then I think I could have navigated alone As I've stated and has been stated I wore a simple mid calf black dress a black hat with a partial veil. 1. It was an outfit I had for my own fathers funeral and DR had helped pick out and thought it appropriate then. 2. My mother taught me you should cover your head in a church 3. I had been crying like everyone else and the hat covered my face a bit I entered the church sat midway around 6-10 rows from the front and found myself seated next to Genna. I was certainly not the only woman with a hat on seated or on the stage. Their were many much more elaborate then mine I was not in the front row or anywhere near it with Sandra, Diane or the kids. I did not continue to the front with QB and family even though I probably could have. Like everyone else I walked past the casket. I am 6ft white and blond and probably pretty noticable however for the life of me I don't see how this makes me appear to be Davids widow or someone would take the leap that I thought I was. There were woman dressed as though they were going to a show or out nightclubbing in short skirts and red sequins etc. to me that was not appropriate. Can someone please tell me why my choice of clothing offended anyone or I would be perceived to think I was something I clearly had no intention of being perceived as. Am I missing something here? Go ahead have at it I can take criticism. D Dunt worre bout it...we wuznt ther anda we dint see no tape. We dint sey: mournin sun ded! An dats all I wunted U tu kno...I beleeves U ar a woman of charactur sew dat lye dat wuz tolt kan dye herre. Welcom tu da Palace!
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Post by BroMan on Jan 1, 2010 23:15:47 GMT -5
BroMan, jody has it in her hard ass head that you and I are the same person. Everything you have stated so far is the TRUTH. I had no intention of visiting this stupid thread but since jody called herself calling me out to start shit, I had to address her. I wish she would go away and leave this board FOREVER! Frum ur mouth tu Gods ears! We ALL wish dat! Butta Ium done. I dunt wont Mz.Debbie tu fill lik she haz tu defen hurselve...I jest wonted hur tu kno who tolt da lye bout hur ovah herre. i hopes I ded dat an she will fill comfoetable postin herre.
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Post by Common on Jan 1, 2010 23:27:46 GMT -5
Debbie, speaking for me, I could care less. The topic about the funeral was discussed because of Tony's & genna's depictions of events. I thought the whole thing was funny and sad at the same time when we posted about it. This has been discussed ad nauseum. I find it rather unfortunate that the first post that you made here was regarding posts that were posted almost 6 years ago. As much as everybody wants to 'straighten' things out, I think it would have been more appropriate if at least, we had gotten to 'know' you better. I'm not saying you don't have the right to defend yourself but at least, give us a chance to get a better feel of where you are coming from.
I have stated on this board, time and time again, that while we are interested in knowing who David was, we are also concerned that the music he left behind is not neglected. Though his solo work had moderate success, I believe it had shades of brillance and was unfairly, IMO, ignored by critics and Motown. To me, it is unfair for David to be only characterized as the Temptations' lead singer and the volatile boyfriend of Tammi Terrell. Of course, David's relationship with her has always been the focus in Motown's rumor mill and granted, there are some things that need to be put to rest. If anything has been discussed here, it evolved out of conversations regarding allegations made in Tony's and genna's book.
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Post by BroMan on Jan 1, 2010 23:33:13 GMT -5
Thanx U Mz.Common...datz whut I wuz tryna sey..Butta U sed it sew mech betta! ;D
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Post by Brandy on Jan 1, 2010 23:54:04 GMT -5
First of all jody..why is this nonsense even coming up again? it's 2010 a new year, nobody is trying to rehash all that crap in ad nauseum. grow up and act your age not your shoe size.
btw broman isn't lying and he can speak english he just chooses to type the way he want to and that's not ebonics..he's typing the same way the martin show broman character talks.
why is common and der68 name being thrown about in this thread? der68 haven't been here in awhile.. it's been pretty quiet here and we want to keep it that way..nobody cares.
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Post by BroMan on Jan 2, 2010 0:12:01 GMT -5
First of all jody..why is this nonsense even coming up again? it's 2010 a new year, nobody is trying to rehash all that crap in ad nauseum. grow up and act your age not your shoe size. btw broman isn't lying and he can speak english he just chooses to type the way he want to and that's not ebonics..he's typing the same way the martin show broman character talks. why is common and der68 name being thrown about in this thread? der68 haven't been here in awhile.. it's been pretty quiet here and we want to keep it that way..nobody cares. Thanx U Mz.Brandy...same ole mess diffurent dey..thatz all! mournin sun iz trna covah hur lyes bye blamin somebode elze az usuel! We ben thru diz ish befoe.an we all knows how it endz ;D...
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Post by Brandy on Jan 2, 2010 0:36:05 GMT -5
First of all jody..why is this nonsense even coming up again? it's 2010 a new year, nobody is trying to rehash all that crap in ad nauseum. grow up and act your age not your shoe size. btw broman isn't lying and he can speak english he just chooses to type the way he want to and that's not ebonics..he's typing the same way the martin show broman character talks. why is common and der68 name being thrown about in this thread? der68 haven't been here in awhile.. it's been pretty quiet here and we want to keep it that way..nobody cares. Thanx U Mz.Brandy...same ole mess diffurent dey..thatz all! mournin sun iz trna covah hur lyes bye blamin somebode elze az usuel! We ben thru diz ish befoe.an we all knows how it endz ;D... Exactly broman, I know..trust me I know lol
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Post by BroMan on Jan 2, 2010 9:04:11 GMT -5
I posted:
To which mournin sun replied; .
I will translate : Again with what CC told you. STOP with the lies..You claimed YOU talked to Debbie face to face yet you didn't notice what she was wearing? You never once posted that CC told you anything about Debbie. Find the post! Since I'm not Common you didn't tell me anything. Get off the crazy bus.
Crazy is a pain in the bum to understand too. You say "Something you wouldn't have done"...then you say she was "inappropriate" because David didn't have a widow when he passed...then you say "It didn't matter" and she had a right to do whatever you said she did. So which statement is your answer? Even You should be able to see these are contradicting statements. Pick one and stick to it . From all I've read about David Ruffin,You don't have a sentence in his life. Not even a honorable mention. We've all read about Sandra,Tammi,Genna,Joy,Debbie,and Diane be it true or not. But not one sentence written about YOU...I guess that's why you run all over the internet trying to make yourself known. You wanted everybody to know David didn't abuse you, Who said he did? Is that the crooked tale you have made your lifes work to straighten out? Nobody disputes that you were involved with David Ruffin...we just don't care about that involvment. If any lies have been told about you,it was based on the crazy things you posted on numerous message boards,because YOU are the only one talking about YOU and David. Why do you continue to post on this board? You don't do that to the other boards you've been kicked off of. Finish writting your book,then any interested parties can buy it and read it. I wish you the best,but please respect that you have been banned from this forum and just leave.
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Post by BeesNVMe on Jan 2, 2010 13:19:35 GMT -5
I can't believe it's 2010 and someone is still whining about this mess. For clarification purposes only...I will address this issue. Jody...not one time did I ask you tome on this board and tell me David Ruffin stories. Hell...I met Ruffin before you did...his brother is a good friend of mine...and I have several friends that were very close to him. Had I wanted to hear Ruffin stories they were just a phone call away. This board came to be because there were vicious lies and rumors being spread around at the time. This is supposed to be a place where Ruffin can honestly be discussed without making him look like a monster. I could care less about Ruffin's Romances since they do not directly concern me. But just know that I did not ask you to do story time @ The Palace...thanx.
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Post by Jody on Jan 2, 2010 16:15:09 GMT -5
Bee, that is not true. You know that you and Common both ask me to share stories with you when I first came here. I posted to the board, and was so shy in the beginning about saying anything about David. I just wanted to eliminate the stories being said about him beating women. I have no clue if you met David before me. I did not know anything about you until I came here. However, I do know that I sent info about the Palace to Jimmy, and teased him about you loving you some Jimmy Ruffin. He said he did not know you? ? I'm just saying...Who knows, I sure don't... However, yes you and Common both said to share David stories. I did not share intimate stuff with you...Not on this board, and you know it... It is 2010, and people still talk about David, because there has never been closure...By the way, part of what was David, was his love life, his children, his music, his death...You cannot talk about one without it running into another...I wish you well Bee...Happy New Year... I can't believe it's 2010 and someone is still whining about this mess. For clarification purposes only...I will address this issue. Jody...not one time did I ask you tome on this board and tell me David Ruffin stories. Hell...I met Ruffin before you did...his brother is a good friend of mine...and I have several friends that were very close to him. Had I wanted to hear Ruffin stories they were just a phone call away. This board came to be because there were vicious lies and rumors being spread around at the time. This is supposed to be a place where Ruffin can honestly be discussed without making him look like a monster. I could care less about Ruffin's Romances since they do not directly concern me. But just know that I did not ask you to do story time @ The Palace...thanx.
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Post by Jody on Jan 2, 2010 16:20:44 GMT -5
Broman? I go back and read and see if once I accused her of killing David. I did not. I want the truth, and if it came with the help of Drex, then I would be most grateful...I do not know who did it, but someone did. David didn't help, but there is so much more to this story. You cannot forever sweep it under the proverbial rug!!!!! Someone will either pay here or in the hereafter....BELIEVE DAT... Aint dat da dayum truff! Chenge of hart mournin sun? NOW U dunt beleeve diane had sumthang tu dew wit Mr.Ruffins deth??? Whut chenged ur mine??
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Post by Jody on Jan 2, 2010 16:33:20 GMT -5
I was told you are Broman. If you are not, then I apologize. I guess you would be the one to know.Well, you and Broman.:-) Lie about you. Never happened little girl...I have never not once told a lie about you or your Grandma...I didn't even know her to lie. Or you for that matter. You are the one that told me that Brandi was a bad seed and to watch out for her...Never talked about your personal life, I didn't know you enough to even know what your personal life was. The only thing you told me was where you worked, that you went to Vegas, and about your Mother and Grandmother and that she was sick, and where you were born. Now, what about that was a lie? HUH? I have not bad mouthed any one on this board until they tried to drag me through the mud. Then I told them what I perceived them to be... I thanked you for everything you ever did for me, and for ever kind word you said. When you started to accuse me of CHIT that was not true, then I called you out.. Good riddance is all I can say...I wish you well... jody, you are very stupid. Why are you calling my name into this mess? For the umpteenth time, I am NOT Broman! If anybody has lied on anyone, you were the one who lied on me to start with. Now, leave my name out of this mess and find something productive to do. I have no damn dog in this fight and could give a damn about who said what about whom. Why don't you run to Unsung Tv series or VH-1 to straighten out whatever so-called lies you believe is being told??? For somebody who has badmouthed everybody on this board, you keep hanging around like a bad habit. I don't say a damn thing to you and if I have something to say TO YOU, I'll say it under my own name. Now leave me the hell alone!
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Post by Jody on Jan 2, 2010 16:40:33 GMT -5
Sorry Broman who ever you are, Debbie already knows this. I told her myself...I am older than she is, and to me it was not appropriate. It still was her choice...That is why they make chocolate and vanilla ice-cream. We all have different taste. I had just never seen anyone not married to someone wear a veil...I told her I was sorry if I made the wrong statement...Gosh, I am crucified no matter what I feel and say...By the way, I was NOT the only one to bring up the veil. The dress was perfect...GET OVER IT for GOD's sake... OK I really would rather this particular topic die however I'm going to ask and I"ll take whatever anyone's opinion is as such. The facts: I rode to DR's funeral in the limo provided to QB's family. I was grateful to have had the invitation extended to me to ride with them so that I didn't have to go alone. I knew from the funeral home that there would be huge crowds and it was a bit more then I think I could have navigated alone As I've stated and has been stated I wore a simple mid calf black dress a black hat with a partial veil. 1. It was an outfit I had for my own fathers funeral and DR had helped pick out and thought it appropriate then. 2. My mother taught me you should cover your head in a church 3. I had been crying like everyone else and the hat covered my face a bit I entered the church sat midway around 6-10 rows from the front and found myself seated next to Genna. I was certainly not the only woman with a hat on seated or on the stage. Their were many much more elaborate then mine I was not in the front row or anywhere near it with Sandra, Diane or the kids. I did not continue to the front with QB and family even though I probably could have. Like everyone else I walked past the casket. I am 6ft white and blond and probably pretty noticable however for the life of me I don't see how this makes me appear to be Davids widow or someone would take the leap that I thought I was. There were woman dressed as though they were going to a show or out nightclubbing in short skirts and red sequins etc. to me that was not appropriate. Can someone please tell me why my choice of clothing offended anyone or I would be perceived to think I was something I clearly had no intention of being perceived as. Am I missing something here? Go ahead have at it I can take criticism. D Dunt worre bout it...we wuznt ther anda we dint see no tape. We dint sey: mournin sun ded! An dats all I wunted U tu kno...I beleeves U ar a woman of charactur sew dat lye dat wuz tolt kan dye herre. Welcom tu da Palace!
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Post by Queenie on Jan 2, 2010 16:56:15 GMT -5
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Post by Jody on Jan 2, 2010 16:56:48 GMT -5
It does ot matter what I think. It was her choice. Can you not undestand English? I posted: To which mournin sun replied; . I will translate : Again with what CC told you. STOP with the lies..You claimed YOU talked to Debbie face to face yet you didn't notice what she was wearing? (I talked to Debbie face to face at the Swanson's, not at the funeral (Church)...) You never once posted that CC told you anything about Debbie. Find the post! Since I'm not Common you didn't tell me anything. Get off the crazy bus. (Since you are not Common, then as before I apologize) Crazy is a pain in the bum to understand too. You say "Something you wouldn't have done"...then you say she was "inappropriate" because David didn't have a widow when he passed...then you say "It didn't matter" and she had a right to do whatever you said she did. So which statement is your answer? Even You should be able to see these are contradicting statements. Pick one and stick to it . (I talked to Debbie face to face at the Swanson's, not at the funeral (Church)...) From all I've read about David Ruffin,You don't have a sentence in his life. Not even a honorable mention. We've all read about Sandra,Tammi,Genna,Joy,Debbie,and Diane be it true or not. But not one sentence written about YOU...(I DID NOT LIVE IN DETROIT) (((((Oh yes, where is Elaine in all of these that you read about? HUH, Yet you pushed her so high on that pedestal it was ridiculous...)))))I guess that's why you run all over the internet trying to make yourself known.ARE YOU TOTALLY OBCESSED WITH TRYING TO FIND ME? ?? You wanted everybody to know David didn't abuse you, Who said he did? Is that the crooked tale you have made your lifes work to straighten out? Nobody disputes that you were involved with David Ruffin...we just don't care about that involvment. If any lies have been told about you,it was based on the crazy things you posted on numerous message boards,because YOU are the only one talking about YOU and David. Why do you continue to post on this board? You don't do that to the other boards you've been kicked off of. Finish writting your book,YOU WISH...HEHEHE, THAT IS JUST STUPID...THEN I HAVE COME TO EXPECT IT FROM YOU......then any interested parties can buy it and read it. I wish you the best,but please respect that you have been banned from this forum and just leave.STOP DOGGING ME THEN...
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