debbie
Junior Ruffian
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Post by debbie on Jan 12, 2010 16:01:08 GMT -5
Duchess, I met Jody in person at the funeral home after DR's death and we chatted most of the evening. We exchanged emails after she made contact with me here after my original post which has been some time ago. Regretfully I'm afraid that is not the solution for all this to stop. It makes no sense to me and frankly I personally have been trying to avoid it because if it were me I would not want to be going through all this publicly on a message board but I have no control over what others do. Debbie I didn't mean to insinuate that you had the power to control whether jody posts over here or not, and I certainly did not intend to put you in the middle of this mess. I was just wondering if jody ever got your email address since she claimed the only reason she posts over here now is to talk with you. I figured if she got your personal email, then maybe she could cut out the middle-man (which is this board) and post directly to you. Jody claims she is done with this board.... again, so I guess problem solved. I just didn't want you to think I was blaming you for jody's posts. Duchess I didn't take it that way. I just responded to let you know that Jody had my email the next day after my original post. This all didn't need to be going down here and I'm really sorry it did. I sure didn't mean to stir up that kind of a hornets nest by posting.
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Post by TrishDrex on Jan 12, 2010 22:14:34 GMT -5
Such class. Jody, I guess we simply aren't ghetto enough for this board. Well, well, well, drex, you finally showed your true, racist, confederate flag loving colors! I guess you didn't have the balls to call us all "niggers" like you probably wanted to, so you just settled on "ghetto." I mean, why else would you use the term "ghetto" to describe a message board YOU KNOW is mainly populated with Black folks? First of all, I'm sick and GD tired of people using the term "ghetto" or "hood" to describe ignorant and/or uncouth behavior. The word "ghetto" was first used to describe sections of some European cities to which Jews were formerly restricted. Then the term was adopted in America to describe the slums or impoverished neighborhoods (which stupid people like drex assume are only populated by mostly Blacks and some Latinos). Now, how the hell did a term used to describe a certain type of neighborhood, come to mean ignorant behavior by mainly Black people? Do people think that just because someone lives in the ghetto they must be Black and ignorant? Nowadays, the terms "nigger" and "ghetto" seem to be interchangeable (which is incorrect and stupid!) How did a term that was meant to describe a Jewish neighborhood come to mean ignorant Black folk?...I'm dying to know! When someone calls a person "ghetto" they are not calling them a Jewish neighborhood, they are basically calling them a nigger...and that's exactly what you did, drex...basically call us all niggers. Funny thing though, you know David Ruffin was a black man, right? And going by how you incorrectly use the term "ghetto," wasn't DR "ghetto" too? The man who's death has consumed your every waking moment was "ghetto," sweetheart! lol! So what does that make you, exactly? You finally showed your true colors though, drex...now you really might not want to come back over here, b*tch! P.S. "GHETTO" IS A PLACE AND NOT A BEHAVIOR OR A WAY OF ACTING!!!! poor baby....seek help. Wow geeez on the "n" word. Do you feel better now? Your ghettoness is showing posting such, my my my!
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Post by TrishDrex on Jan 12, 2010 22:16:48 GMT -5
Bee, this is just for you...I am gone, and will try not to be involved again. I would much rather you talk to Debbie and Drex, without thinking I am involved. If there can be dialog between them and anyone interested in finding the truth, that truly is all I want...I want to be able to face David in Heaven, with no illusions regarding our relationship, and hear him say, you cared, you tried your best...I truly wish you well Bee...Jody Iz diz reely good bye? ore iz it lik all da otha tymes? Wella mournin sun I hopz Mr.Ruffin will thank U foe leeving hiz bord whin U see him en heavin! see ya! takz kare! Thanx foe comin ovah! ((Palace Family)) mournin sun iz GONE!!!! Lest Cellabrate!!!! Don't have the playa, hate the game...it's a nice double-wide, tied down, with a pickup in the yard. Sorry no Rebel Flag Ghettofabulous!
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Post by Duchess on Jan 12, 2010 22:43:57 GMT -5
poor baby....seek help. Wow geeez on the "n" word. Do you feel better now? Your ghettoness is showing posting such, my my my! Why do you keep punking out, drex? Save all your "ghetto" references, and just call us " NIGGERS" like you want to. And if we are so "ghetto" then why do you keep coming back here? Poor, sad, fat and lonely little drex wants so desperately to belong to this message board . It's never gonna happen, sweetheart, so why don't you just pack up your raggedy little suitcase filled with newspaper clippings that no one cares about and KICK ROCKS!!! ...And, oh yeah, I'll "seek help" just as soon as you do 'cause Lord knows you need it (along with a gastric bypass).
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Post by BroMan on Jan 12, 2010 23:05:25 GMT -5
Dew U meen Dunt hate da playa Ium not ah hater et all and I knos da game...AN game reckonizez Game an ((drex ))) U dunt lookz dat familer rite now. Bye da wey..I knoz dat pic-up ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D iz up on bloks. Whu iz ghettofabuliz?
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Post by TrishDrex on Jan 13, 2010 0:29:27 GMT -5
poor baby....seek help. Wow geeez on the "n" word. Do you feel better now? Your ghettoness is showing posting such, my my my! Why do you keep punking out, drex? Save all your "ghetto" references, and just call us " NIGGERS" like you want to. And if we are so "ghetto" then why do you keep coming back here? Poor, sad, fat and lonely little drex wants so desperately to belong to this message board . It's never gonna happen, sweetheart, so why don't you just pack up your raggedy little suitcase filled with newspaper clippings that no one cares about and KICK ROCKS!!! ...And, oh yeah, I'll "seek help" just as soon as you do 'cause Lord knows you need it (along with a gastric bypass). People who knew Mr. David do care, some people who didn't know Mr. David do care. As usual I have to endure a few nutjobs along my journey. Do you really want someone to call you the "N" word? Really? That word should have never been spoken. Now, there are your ghettos, Italian ghettos, Jewish ghettos....ghetto is a part of history, where immigrants from other countries lived together during the assimilation process. Now, again, because I do not suggest that someone come in contact with a body part as was posted to ME in a post, I guess I am not ghetto enough, But sorry, no "N" word.
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Post by TrishDrex on Jan 13, 2010 0:31:17 GMT -5
Dew U meen Dunt hate da playa Ium not ah hater et all and I knos da game...AN game reckonizez Game an ((drex ))) U dunt lookz dat familer rite now. Bye da wey..I knoz dat pic-up ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D iz up on bloks. Whu iz ghettofabuliz? See BroMan, I'm just not ghetto enough or ghettofabulous. You are right, the pick up is on PCH with a for sale sign on. You interested?
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Post by Duchess on Jan 13, 2010 1:16:04 GMT -5
People who knew Mr. David do care, some people who didn't know Mr. David do care. As usual I have to endure a few nutjobs along my journey. Do you really want someone to call you the "N" word? Really? That word should have never been spoken. Now, there are your ghettos, Italian ghettos, Jewish ghettos....ghetto is a part of history, where immigrants from other countries lived together during the assimilation process. Now, again, because I do not suggest that someone come in contact with a body part as was posted to ME in a post, I guess I am not ghetto enough, But sorry, no "N" word. I would rather someone go ahead and call me a "nigger" than hemming & hawing around it like you are. What the hell does the term "ghetto," as you describe it, have anything to do with suggesting "that someone come in contact with a body part" You say that "ghetto" is used to describe Italian, Jewish, and other neighborhoods during the "assimilation process" but that is NOT how you are using the word here. And btw, "ghettos" were mainly developed because of DISCRIMINATION not "assimilation." Folks of certain ethnicities were discriminated against and could not get housing in certain neighborhoods, so they had NO CHOICE but to form and live in "ghettos." Let me ask you this, what do you mean when you call me and others "ghetto"? What are you really trying to say? Are you trying to say we are ignorant, uncouth, crass, or uneducated? If that's the case, that sounds more like the definition of a "nigger" and not the definition of "ghetto." Drex, you may not actually be saying the word "nigger" but that's what you are implying when you use the term "ghetto," so please save your self-righteous indignation...no one is buying it anyway. And I'm sure there are people who may care about the circumstances surrounding DR's death, but there is no one with at least half a brain (and certainly no one on this board) who gives a good God*amn about your take on some newspaper articles, or your asinine "murder" theories. I mean, if the interest in DR's death is so high, then why don't you make a website strictly devoted to it? Oh yeah, you tried that and we all know how well that turned out (tee hee hee).
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Post by BroMan on Jan 13, 2010 1:30:28 GMT -5
Dew U meen Dunt hate da playa Ium not ah hater et all and I knos da game...AN game reckonizez Game an ((drex ))) U dunt lookz dat familer rite now. Bye da wey..I knoz dat pic-up ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D iz up on bloks. Whu iz ghettofabuliz? See BroMan, I'm just not ghetto enough or ghettofabulous. You are right, the pick up is on PCH with a for sale sign on. You interested? I gotta pass on dat pik-up,datz not how i rollz... I wush I new wth U iz talkin bout! Whut iz U tryna sey? I guest da bigga querstien iz...are U smarta den ah 5th gradar? I thinkz not!
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Post by BroMan on Jan 13, 2010 1:34:57 GMT -5
U dint stark nuthin. Diz ben goin on evah foe yeers.Noe needz tu be sorre...az long az mournin sun an drex keepz entrudin...thiz will keep happenin. Dey iz shawt on pride an goode centz! Bye da wey Mz,Duchess..drex aint gonna posk long az she seez membaz logget ento da bord..mournin sun eitha..we notised dat ah few yeers ago,,,datz da wey dem types roll...cowerds iz whut dey iz! err umm she wuz gettin deth threts, so she closet hur borin bord. Butta iffen U fill thretened whi dew U go all ovah da intenet usin da same name,givin out hur emale adrezz lik welfare cheese. drex iz a big lyar...she shet dat borin bord coz nobode wuz on it xcept mournin sun,an sum yong boy.She ben run offa evah bord jest lik mournin sun. Philly Blog postas treeted hur worze den da postaz ovah herre.Funne she dint call dem ghetto.
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Post by BroMan on Jan 13, 2010 11:36:14 GMT -5
Yup!Yup! Butta fat drex will alweys hav mournin sun cuz.she needz closur ! ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Post by Brandy on Jan 13, 2010 16:30:16 GMT -5
Yup!Yup! Butta fat drex will alweys hav mournin sun cuz.she needz closur ! ;D ;D ;D ;D the only validation that did happen was when he moved on and proposed to diane..that was closure right there.
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Post by Jody on Jan 18, 2010 14:09:15 GMT -5
Marge, a friend in Texas wrote to me today, and she read this. Now, I understand I am suppose to be gone, and I will be, if you and others stop lying. What you are saying here about CC, I told you. There is just one problem, YOU forgot some of it. I met CC about 9 days after I met David. I have been to her home a many times. Now, CC is NOT the one that opened her house to me when David died. That was a former manager and his wife...You told me that you did not know CC, and now you speak with all this authority...This is exactly why I come to the Palace and post. I feel the need to clear up the lies told...Even if they were misunderstandings, then they should not be put to print until you know for sure... I have read several lies here today. One, I said that CC was a street woman. So was David a street man...I loved both of them. I knew nothing about that life when I met them, but I kinda doubt you to be a street woman Marge, yet you profess to love David...It was easy. Most of the time anyway... Also, you called me out on David not talking street or profanity around me. I think it was because I was not a woman to do that. So he respected that... Now, I will stay away until another lie is told...It is your call, and the others here who choose to do so... Jody CC was a close friend of Ruffin's..she said she was his "play" sister. She knew and was known by a lot of the ol school performers. I'm thinking she was related to one of the Top's..She loved to party,and Lawd knows she could curse. Just like Ruffin. I don't know why jody refer's to her as a street woman. She didn't live in the street,and although I'm sure she had some kind of hustle to my knowledge she didn't walk the streets either. But "street" as joy says she was,she was gracious enough to open her home to jody, and give her a place to stay when Ruffin died.Here's the post where jody claimed somebody refered to us as street.
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molly
Ultimate Ruffness
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Post by molly on Jan 18, 2010 14:39:44 GMT -5
jody wrote
A former manager opened "their" home to you? I'm sorry I remember you saying you stayed at CC.s home. So if that's a lie YOU told it. I had NO idea where you stayed.
Really it's NOT neccessary for you to Clear up anything,because as you must know,people don't really care. Whether you stayed at CC or a former managers home,really isn't that important,is it?
Where is the lie? YOU did say CC was a steet woman. Quite frankly I don't know what "street" means to you. BTW I knew you wouldn't stay away, YOU never do. I guess any excuse is better than none.
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Post by Jody on Jan 18, 2010 15:11:51 GMT -5
...and YOU never quit lying Marge. Not just you, everyone that post to me. Either there is a lye or an exaggeration or manipulation of some sort....The games people play...NOT ONE TIME have I ever threatened or cursed you Marge. Not one time to anyone else other than to threaten to tell or post the truth through letters or post made to me...Not once...Anyone with a grain of sense can see just by reading who has threatened whom...Now, if you just keep me out of your conversations, I will gladly stay away. It is you all that can't do that. I have not posted in days, and you all are still dogging me....GO figure... Jody wrote A former manager opened "their" home to you? I'm sorry I remember you saying you stayed at CC.s home. So if that's a lie YOU told it. I had NO idea where you stayed. Really it's NOT necessary for you to Clear up anything,because as you must know,people don't really care. Whether you stayed at CC or a former managers home,really isn't that important,is it? Where is the lie? YOU did say CC was a street woman. Quite frankly I don't know what "street" means to you. BTW I knew you wouldn't stay away, YOU never do. I guess any excuse is better than none.
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