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Post by Queenie on Jan 11, 2004 20:07:07 GMT -5
Oh lawd Blessed is writing a book let me see I read Otis, Genna, Pattie,,Oprah,,,Dr. Phil,,,Dr. Ruth,,,Sesame Street,,,or whats it Gladys Knight,,, Captain Hook, Star Jones,,, Michael Jordan,,,,Denise Rodman.,,,Montel Jordan..
O well bring it on Blessed how many chapters do we have read.. I going back to school next month do you think I will be able to read your book??
Board you might have to paraphrase Blessed's book for me since I will not have time to read it .
One more question Blessed is your book for sale?? Otis has my money therefore I might not can pay you.
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Post by Joy on Jan 11, 2004 20:11:34 GMT -5
:eet: Okay, sit back and enjoy the popcorn NDF- HAHA Okay my first subject is Sandra. These are all the question about her that come to mind. Of course all my question are coming from after reading this (if that is what it is called) book. Sandra ( and perhaps other women in David life) 1. When was he divorced from his first wife? In the books it is stated he told Sandra in front of Genna that with Genna is where he wants to be? I find it hard to believe, since he left her so soon after with Tammy. 2. Did Ruffin ever speak badly about other women to women? (I.e., discuss his prior relationships with current ones). 3. Did he beat on all his women, including his wives? Only because she claims he beat on everyone. 4. The reason why I say she made Sandra look like a punk. Is because Genna claims on the steps of Motown before Sandra introduced herself, she was looking around, I guess trying to make sure Ruffin was anywhere around before revealing herself; if you were messing with my husband, I would just come out yelling at you that’s me, and wouldn’t care who was around. 5. Where there any relationships he regretted?
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Post by der68 on Jan 11, 2004 20:34:10 GMT -5
OK! Let me try Blessed: 1. When was he divorced from his first wife? In the books it is stated he told Sandra in front of Genna that with Genna is where he wants to be? I find it hard to believe, since he left her so soon after with Tammy. I don't believe he said that to Sandra in front of genna. 2. Did Ruffin ever speak badly about other women to women? (I.e., discuss his prior relationships with current ones). Only when he was trying to get his self out of trouble. ;D ;D 3. Did he beat on all his women, including his wives? Only because she claims he beat on everyone. He didn't beat me. David hit me once,I scared that mofo so bad it never happened again. I don't know that he beat Sandra or Joy. 4. The reason why I say she made Sandra look like a punk. Is because Genna claims on the steps of Motown before Sandra introduced herself, she was looking around, I guess trying to make sure Ruffin was anywhere around before revealing herself; if you were messing with my husband, I would just come out yelling at you that’s me, and wouldn’t care who was around. BS! Sandra has confronted many women with David standing there. genna is a Liar. Sandra wasn't scared to jump genna's with David standing there. 5. Where there any relationships he regretted? lol!lol! I wouldn't have been the one that he shared that info with. ;D ;D ;D
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Post by Queenie on Jan 11, 2004 20:55:44 GMT -5
Blessed you have some deep questions...
Seems to me Gena tool with the idea that she did not know David's was married. I find that strange because of the Motown's community everyone knew everyone's business. Even Otis talked about David's relationship with Sandra/Tammie he stated David was divorced from from Sandra at the time of seeing Tammie. Sometimes a man and wife can be separtated and still be legaly married (just a thought).
David does not sound to me that he would disrepect a women when he is with another women. If that was logically sound than you have to say the women were with stupid women and I don't buy that. I think every relationship David was in he did not bad mouth them otherwise you will hear them talking about it. Genna was a groupie and she hate to be in that place so why not make everyone other women in David's life a loser.
I have a great respect for the women who shared his life. I think each women came into his life at different periods..For example Sandra and David were young therefore; a lot of their problems steam from being immature. His children love their dad to dealth so I only can imagine David was not the monster Gena portray him to be .
Genna will have people thinking David beat up the postman if you let her tell her story. I know from experience men did put their hands on women because it was socially accepted. I am not saying it was okay with putting their hands on anybody (other than children beat the hell out of them) just kidding. I can't answer that question however, if she was getting daily beatings why did she leave. The women knew more about David than his own brother. In other to sell books, let throw in some beatings. Hell she talked about everybody got a beating from David even the dog.
I think Sandra is women with a lot of class and I think at the end David respect her for that. Remember she was also young when David joined Tempt trying to make sense of his fame. Did she have lower herself to Genna's level hell no because her name was Mrs. David Ruffin and Genna tried make her look like a whip. Sandra has children to raised girls at that she was not going to sink to the pot like Genna. Remeber who wrote the book not Sandra Genna trying to be Sandra.
Yea right in her dreams she wish she could be Mrs. David Ruffin. The reason she did not knock her over that porch because she thought it was not worth messing up her dress.
I think each one of his relationship is different from previous relationship. David could never compare Sandra with another lady because each brings something different to the plate. I don't think he regretted anyone of his relationships however; I do think he grew from them.
Each lady taught him how to love.
Finally, I like what Eddie K. said David has his good times and bad times but he has never put his bad times on someone else. If you think about the statement you will find this man has taken responsbility for every thing that has happen to him no matter if is was good, bad or indiffer. Seems to me the wife beater is Genna she has not taken the reponsilbity of her life therefore blaming David for everything went wrong.
The man could have done worst in terms of hurting people but he did not do that for that Mr. David I will give you a A+
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Post by Joy on Jan 11, 2004 21:14:33 GMT -5
Thanks for the answers, I will give others a chance to answer before moving on with the next set.
NDF- Yeah, when I ask question, they are deep.
Der68- I didn't think he said that in front of Sandra with genna there. You know with all of her dreams throughout the book, I don't know what to believe, or she has belived the fantasy so long she doesn't know what was real or make believe.
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Post by molly on Jan 11, 2004 21:56:31 GMT -5
Blessed you've got some deep questions!
Okay my first subject is Sandra. These are all the question about her that come to mind. Of course all my question are coming from after reading this (if that is what it is called) book.
Sandra ( and perhaps other women in David life)
1. When was he divorced from his first wife? In the books it is stated he told Sandra in front of Genna that with Genna is where he wants to be? I find it hard to believe, since he left her so soon after with Tammy.
I don't believe this ever happened.
2. Did Ruffin ever speak badly about other women to women? (I.e., discuss his prior relationships with current ones). I don't know if he did to women he was intimate with. But I have heard him call women "crazy" or "dangerous",but only in the context of telling a story. Only once did I hear Ruffin speak in a derogatory fashion about a woman. This woman he believed stole something from him.
3. Did he beat on all his women, including his wives? Only because she claims he beat on everyone.
Don't know. I do believe he beat genna. Can you imagine being with her and not beating her?
4. The reason why I say she made Sandra look like a punk. Is because Genna claims on the steps of Motown before Sandra introduced herself, she was looking around, I guess trying to make sure Ruffin was anywhere around before revealing herself; if you were messing with my husband, I would just come out yelling at you that’s me, and wouldn’t care who was around.
I have been present when Sandra has confornted A woman of David's. He was there as well as 10-15 other people. It did not stop her one bit! Nor did David get violent with her.
5. Where there any relationships he regretted?
Jimmy Ruffin is probably the only person that has that answer.
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Post by Joy on Jan 11, 2004 22:11:18 GMT -5
No I can't imagine being around genna and not beating her. I am sure with this book out, if he was alive, he would probably give her a swift kick in the arse. I know I would like too, and I don't know her.
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Post by Joy on Jan 11, 2004 22:13:22 GMT -5
:eet: more popcorn anyone. Okay here is my next set, and there is more after. I am getting scared with posting these guestion, the board might blow up. Cheryl, Nedra, and Kimberly 1. Why do you suppose she felt she needed to receive forgiveness from just Cheryl and not all of the kids (wife)? 2. Why does she refer to the kids as Nedra n’ em? That urks me. I think it is totally disrespect to the others. 3. Was she really close to Nedra, as oppose to the other children, she states that Nedra excepted her and they did things together? 4. Was Ruffin, their for his girls, during this time, was he in their lives, was he fairly a decent father? She claims he abused her son, physically. That is why I asked. 5. She states that a another child has come up Kelly, and that this child found her and her son, and they had Kelly meet with her sisters. What do you all think of that? 6. Does her child get along with the other children, then or now? 7. Did Ruffin spend holidays with his girls? I ask basically because there is nothing positive about him in this book, nothing about him enjoying holidays or time with his family. 8. Was Ruffin close with his mother? She claims she was the one that was sending his mother cards, and initiating the contact between the two? Or did I read that wrong? I don’t remember if that was the dream portion of the book or what.
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Post by Queenie on Jan 11, 2004 22:14:15 GMT -5
More questions Blessed what are trying to do give us a heat attack!! Some of us work a 9-6 therefore we need our good sense..
By the way, have you read any other books we need to be aware of. After the last post, you presented some deep, deep, deep, questions I was too scared to answer them.
By the way, Blessed you are not part of O's hit man society. I don't want to hear members being bump off otherwise I will have turn you in..
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Post by Joy on Jan 11, 2004 22:17:26 GMT -5
NDF- Girl stop. You I have to get up at 5am and leave out by 6:30am. But the board is so alive I can't get off. Yes they are deep that is just the type of person I am. Psychoanalyis every dang on thing. Okay I confess my name is Blessed Williams, Otis's daughter. LOL. NOW EVERYBODY KNOWS.
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Post by Queenie on Jan 11, 2004 22:18:56 GMT -5
Blessed, I am out of the ball game..
Can't help you but I do enjoy reading your questions. You have captured some very insightful issues.
Okay board here you go!! Blessed and I are waiting....
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Post by Queenie on Jan 11, 2004 22:21:32 GMT -5
Blessed are you kidding?? The joke is over....
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Post by Joy on Jan 11, 2004 22:27:14 GMT -5
What joke, about being otis daughter. Chile please, lawd no. That man is not my father. :bonk:
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Post by Common on Jan 11, 2004 22:29:09 GMT -5
Blessed, you have some interesting questions about David's children. I, too, have wondered about some of the claims that genna made in her book.
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Post by Queenie on Jan 11, 2004 22:31:38 GMT -5
Okay board:
Blessed has jokes... Not only does she makes us think but she also cracks a little jokes
Shameless Blessed yea you are apart of the O's posse.. riding low to get any one in your way...
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