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Post by Queenie on Jan 16, 2004 19:44:07 GMT -5
Okay Board enough is enough take your mess some where else How old are your guys 5?? I came to a conclusion you don't give a damn about Mr. David Ruffin all you care about is yourself. You want to prove to the world you were a part of the David's life. Guess what so am I. I am the person who enjoys his performances and buys his music. No I might had a personal relationship with David but when I read some of the threads hell I don't think none you guys had one either. Who cares people come to this board and what to read about David... You too busy blaming each other about the events that has taken place how many years!!! Der said this no Molly said that No it is Jody's email damn do you have any I idea how stupid that sounds?? I thought we were family, you guys trick me because if we were we will not be sitting around calling each other names. I can't believe you guys will call each other those type of names.. I never heard such name calling in my live. Okay board is it a 60 thing? Who cares if you were the flavor of the month? Hell we all been there.. Who cares if you gain little pounds well if you grew up in the 60's and today is 2004 you are not going to wear a size 5 who cares. The reason you are not a size 5 because you are not going to club every weekend remeber back in the day... You guys claim oh I love David he was a great guy. David and I shared so much... He is my baby baby.. Can't tell because you continue talking about yourself I have a lot of respect for the guy and I did not slept, talk,or seen him perform.. You guys have wealth of knowledge of about the David but all you guys do is fight amongst yourself. I don't know if any one notice but we have some new members care to be civilize in the Place. Der and Jody, I came to conclusion it is time for you guys to box this out.. I will arrange for time and place and supply the the gloves. Drex you will fight the winner. I hope you guys beat hell out of each other to the other one past out maybe you will realize it was not worth it! Who ever lose this drag out fight will never talk about the other the one again!!! Cp, hell with me you need to change the board to Der or Jody.. New members will know this is the Der, Jody, and Drex Show because sure not the Davd Ruffin's Board With this much drama, have you guys tried out any of the soap opera shows. YR is so boaring you guys can live up the show up.. If this continues, yes I will be moving on to another board that respect my statements and opinions not bunch women talking about nothing!!!!
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Post by molly on Jan 16, 2004 20:31:58 GMT -5
Hey New! I hope the use of my name in your post was for illustration, rather than one of participation. I have to agree that this is getting old. However I don’t think it necessarily means these women do not care about David. There are some very strong feeling being expressed here. Since I don’t know what if any kind of history these women have I can’t and won’t speak on it. At this point it may not even be about David. I don’t know. I do know that this is between these two women, and if its going to be worked out it will worked out between the two of them. When der and Jody decide that their exchanges are counter productive then it will stop. There is nothing I, you or anyone else can say to these grown women that is going to make them stop. I think they should keep it off the board. Out of respect for CP! I don’t take their exchanges personally because it has nothing to do with me. I don’t take sides because it has nothing to do with me. I have seen an attempt today to squash this drama, I hope it last. I just don’t want to see your post taken as a dictate by either of them and thus a new melee break out. We as a board will get through this. CP! Is very capable and when she has had enough trust me it will all stop. We as by standers can only wait it out. This monument to David is not going to be destroyed because of the disagreements between any posters.no matter who they are. All boards have “drama” All of them. There will be disagreements and arguments from time to time. But then we just go on. This is a good board with good people. You are one of those good people. But sometimes even good people get confrontational. And act a fool. I think the message is clear that we’re all tired of this mess. Hopefully CP’s feelings will be considered and this particular situation will end. In the meantime I've got to find me a outfit for the party!
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Post by der68 on Jan 16, 2004 21:10:09 GMT -5
Molly, Thank You. I was going to respond to this post. However hard as it is not to I am not. Your words are sufficient and tactful. Mine would not be. Molly I agree that this BS needs to stop, However I hardly appreciate my name being used by some one that does not know a thing about me in a type of reprimand. Everyone has a right to express their views,but when views are personalized then it has been taken way too far. On top of that an Ultimatum? ? Naw!! some folks are real confused up in here. They must not have gotten the memo. You know the one that says I Don't Care. Thanks again Molly. Tip Of The DaY: Don't Start None!!!! Won't Be None!!!!! I'm outtttttttttttt! CP! Common! Molly! I'll Holla
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Post by Joy on Jan 16, 2004 21:57:14 GMT -5
You are right about that Molly. All boards have drama. Since I have been to a few over the years. Ditto der68, That is why I always bring my own copy of the memo "I don't Care", to all new boards I visit. LOL. When folk get in conflict with one another, I don't get involve. I just sit back with my :eet: and enjoy the entertainment. I feel to get passed an issue, you have to talk about, no since in holding all in. Like I said before, I am not going anywhere. Peace
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Post by molly on Jan 16, 2004 22:36:15 GMT -5
You are right about that Molly. All boards have drama. Since I have been to a few over the years. Ditto der68, That is why I always bring my own copy of the memo "I don't Care", to all new boards I visit. LOL. When folk get in conflict with one another, I don't get involve. I just sit back with my and enjoy the entertainment. I feel to get passed an issue, you have to talk about, no since in holding all in. Like I said before, I am not going anywhere. Peace LOL!LOL! Thank you Blessed. No don't go anywhere. I'm not going any where either. You're right sometimes when there are issues or hard feeling's between people they have to have their say. I find interference from a 3rd party sometimes makes it worse. Thanks
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Post by Queenie on Jan 17, 2004 9:02:28 GMT -5
I am sorry if I hit nerve with my statements. I only want to the board to know how it feels when a fan hears personal attacks on the board rather than what the board was attended to be.
Molly, Der, Jody, and the board let me the first one to apologize with my statements. I guess I am tried of reading personal attacks on one another.
My question is when is it going to stop!!
When personal attacks are written on the board, it spoils the fun excitment of the conversation.
I understand we all have different opinions but we can't respects each other? Maybe I missed that in the Place Rule Book attack someone personal character not matter what the cost is.
You are right there are alot of boards that are created for the Tempts (David, Eddie, Paul, O, and Melvin) in which I have visted but the Palace is a special place.
Because of the members, Members who were there when the excitment started and Members who knew David on a personal level.
Once again if I said some words that were out of line, I am sorry...
Have a nice day.....
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Post by Joda on Jan 17, 2004 12:18:32 GMT -5
NDF and Blessed, don't leave, you have brought some heady questions to the board. through that, more insight has been gained in the life of David. David, I believe would appreciate your interest...
There is only one thing of rme to say now. Not once have I said that der was not credible or that she has no right to speak. I have welcomed her, told her there was room for love for David up in here. Leaving intimate out of the equation. Not once have I gone to the dictionary for analogy, and called her every name in the book. The vile, crass way I have been spoken to, left me no room but to defend myself! Now I certainly know that I am not perfect, but I do have feelings as all of us must surly have. With that said. I ask, once again that you leave me out of your attacks der, and I would not say a word. David had all of us for a reason. He must have been happy some of the time. I happen to love my memories. Enough said....
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Post by molly on Jan 17, 2004 13:05:49 GMT -5
NDF and Blessed, don't leave, you have brought some heady questions to the board. through that, more insight has been gained in the life of David. David, I believe would appreciate your interest... There is only one thing of rme to say now. Not once have I said that der was not credible or that she has no right to speak. I have welcomed her, told her there was room for love for David up in here. Leaving intimate out of the equation. Not once have I gone to the dictionary for analogy, and called her every name in the book. The vile, crass way I have been spoken to, left me no room but to defend myself! Now I certainly know that I am not perfect, but I do have feelings as all of us must surly have. With that said. I ask, once again that you leave me out of your attacks der, and I would not say a word. David had all of us for a reason. He must have been happy some of the time. I happen to love my memories. Enough said.... I was afraid that this post would be used as a way to rehash all this mess!!!! Jody der didn't write the post New did. When she posted back she did not mention your name. I had no intentions of saying anymore about this mess,but it seems to me der is the only one keeping silent about it. Let me say this. This is CP'S BOARD. Period!!!! She is the Only ONE that has the right to post a public rebuke.Period!!!!! I have seen two {2} messages posted directly to der under the Ms. Molly post that she chose to IGNORE! That would leave me to believe that she is through with this Now since WE all know that she has NO problem saying what she wants to when her name finds it way in a post wouldn't everybody agree? der's attacks are not unprovoked and in this last instance ie.the posting of her PERSONAL EMAIL and being talked about on another BOARD leads me to think this was what was wanted.Because everybody should know der responds very strong,everytime! Jody you can't do these things and then yell foul when the woman responds. Now to bring up the dictionary post which was on the OLD board. Looks like you're trying to keep this is mess alive. Leave the alone! There are many subjects on this board for poster's to discuss. I don't understand why people are stuck on talking about this particular subject. I see post that are directly posted to people that they have not answered. Jody you for instance have two {2} direct post from CP! that you haven't answered under the NO-ONE thread. I hope no one leaves the board,and we can go on from here. Let's just get ready for the party!
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Post by Common on Jan 17, 2004 15:20:10 GMT -5
NDF- It's all good. It's a new day, so let's move on.
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Post by Joda on Jan 17, 2004 19:02:49 GMT -5
Sorry ...
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