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DAVID
May 29, 2004 19:23:44 GMT -5
Post by Queenie on May 29, 2004 19:23:44 GMT -5
I missed this, sorry... NS, I wish to address the question regarding Find A Grave. First, I have been posting at Find A Grave for a very long time. Second, it is not me posting as SR. Third, Brandy and Sandra Ruffin post each day at the same time basically. Personally, I think it is Brandy posting as SR. I had to close my E-mail to Brandy, she harrassed me for months. So, it appears she started to do anything she could to make it look like Sandra and I have an one up going on. We do not...My purpose for posting at Find A Grave is stickly personal. I can't get to Detroit everyday, so, it is a place for me to go to leave a little love for David... Thanks Jody for opening can of worms people thinks Joy starts all the mess who in the world is Brandy?? Another stalker?? Der can't talk all this attention he is rolling around because y'all will leave him alone.
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DAVID
May 29, 2004 22:23:42 GMT -5
Post by BeesNVMe on May 29, 2004 22:23:42 GMT -5
QNDF I don't have any idea who SR is that post at findagrave. I do know without a doubt that it is not Mrs.Sandra Ruffin. David was this womans husband and the father of her 3 children. There is no way she would put her personal feeling's on the www. along side a bunch of fans. No Way!!!! Sandra Ruffin is a very classy woman with a True connection to David. She would not participate in a posting war with these people. Der...I absolutely agree with you...there is no way Sandra Ruffin is posting at findagrave! Fuh What?
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DAVID
May 30, 2004 1:26:55 GMT -5
Post by Jody on May 30, 2004 1:26:55 GMT -5
Thanks Jody for opening can of worms people thinks Joy starts all the mess who in the world is Brandy?? Another stalker?? Der can't talk all this attention he is rolling around because y'all will leave him alone. So far as I know, Brandy is a fan. She post at David, Paul, Eddie and Melvins grave. Everyone anywhere talking about and loving David won't leave him alone. Guess that includes you and many others huh? Just the nature of loving David I guess.
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DAVID
May 30, 2004 10:42:33 GMT -5
Post by reggie on May 30, 2004 10:42:33 GMT -5
Der...I absolutely agree with you...there is no way Sandra Ruffin is posting at findagrave! Fuh What? ;D ;D ;D ;DFuh What? ;D ;D ;D ;DBeesnvme I like that ;D ;D ;DThat is a perfect example of a Ruffinism ;D ;D ;D ;DRuff would say that. Did you know that? If he was asked about that site and the post I can hear him saying Fuh What? ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Sandra would never post at that fan site. Der68 is right too much class,too much sense. Flowers are for the living, My moms used to say "give me my flowers while I am living".
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DAVID
May 30, 2004 11:08:14 GMT -5
Post by Queenie on May 30, 2004 11:08:14 GMT -5
;D ;D ;D ;DFuh What? ;D ;D ;D ;DBeesnvme I like that ;D ;D ;DThat is a perfect example of a Ruffinism ;D ;D ;D ;DRuff would say that. Did you know that? If he was asked about that site and the post I can hear him saying Fuh What? ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Sandra would never post at that fan site. Der68 is right too much class,too much sense. Flowers are for the living, My moms used to say "give me my flowers while I am living". Hi Reggie where have you been not the same with out post.. BTw, please share with me the definition of FUH What?? Reggie are you saying the people who are posting at the grave or only fans not wanna be lovers,, trouble makers, nothing to do in life, and simply crazy posting.. Okay I understand. Regarding Sandra Ruffin, yes she is class women God blessed Mrs. Sandra Ruffin you carry the yourself well.
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DAVID
May 30, 2004 11:24:29 GMT -5
Post by Queenie on May 30, 2004 11:24:29 GMT -5
So far as I know, Brandy is a fan. She post at David, Paul, Eddie and Melvins grave. Everyone anywhere talking about and loving David won't leave him alone. Guess that includes you and many others huh? Just the nature of loving David I guess. Jody is that you lawd have mercy her we go. Let’s get one thing straight I posted at the message board not at the grave site. I am a true FAN!! If David was alive today, I will not infringe on his family, to get recognition. If David told me to tell the truth about our relationship, I will tell the world I was not his lover or engaged however; I will begged David can I please tell the world we had one little encounter please, please, please...
My posts are asking questions about the man and his music not inventing crap!! Let me take that back I did invented Love affair with David but you did not too Okay!!!! You have a nice day Jody. I know you will respond to this post In the words of the terminator.. I WILL BE BACK
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DAVID
May 30, 2004 15:28:40 GMT -5
Post by BeesNVMe on May 30, 2004 15:28:40 GMT -5
;D ;D ;D ;DFuh What? ;D ;D ;D ;DBeesnvme I like that ;D ;D ;DThat is a perfect example of a Ruffinism ;D ;D ;D ;DRuff would say that. Did you know that? If he was asked about that site and the post I can hear him saying Fuh What? ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Sandra would never post at that fan site. Der68 is right too much class,too much sense. Flowers are for the living, My moms used to say "give me my flowers while I am living". Another Ruffinism, huh, Reggie! ;D FUH What? ;D She is busy nurturing her own garden... little Ruffins that David left...the girls and the grandchildren. Findagrave...FUH What? ;D ;D
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DAVID
May 30, 2004 21:06:22 GMT -5
Post by Queenie on May 30, 2004 21:06:22 GMT -5
Maybe the SR is Smokey Robinson. ;D Smokey Robinson has other things to do than to post at the grave site.
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DAVID
May 30, 2004 21:46:50 GMT -5
Post by Queenie on May 30, 2004 21:46:50 GMT -5
Hey Queen Sunshine , I can't respond with anything other than. believe and say what you want. I have not facricated anything. I am trying to follow your post. I think you are saying you and David had an affair in your mind. Also that you are a big fan. I had one in real life Queen. I love what David loved, his career, and he was awesome. However, I don't and never have classified myself a fan. Not in the respect you are. Because I knew David on a personal level, I have never had to fabricate. Hope you and your children are having a nice holiday... Okay you made your point. Let me ask you question if you were close to David why you never answer any of the questions? Are the questions too personal or you choose to not answer them? To date you only answer one questions regarding knowing or being with David and that was his stage name. Is it hard for you to give out personal answers or you just don't want to share your info??
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DAVID
May 30, 2004 22:15:36 GMT -5
Post by Jody on May 30, 2004 22:15:36 GMT -5
Okay you made your point. Let me ask you question if you were close to David why you never answer any of the questions? Are the questions too personal or you choose to not answer them? To date you only answer one questions regarding knowing or being with David and that was his stage name. Is it hard for you to give out personal answers or you just don't want to share your info?? Hey Sunshine... First, you have only been here a short time compared to how long I have been posting. I wish we still had the old boards, then you can see how much I have posted on many occasions. Some of the questions are fan based, and I am not per say a fan. I also have answered many questions privately. It is not always the place on a public forum. Sometimes it is just too personal and really no ones business. There is so much I could say, but with the attitudes of late, why would I? Also, there are some things that are discussed that I do not know the answer, technical issues.Or things that David told me, that are statements not whole stories. Anyway, it is different when the relationship is personal other than fan based. Then there are the things that I just simple can't go there. Answers to statements made or things I know for sure, that I can't say or could hurt someone really bad. Thanks for your response. It was cordial...
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DAVID
May 30, 2004 22:35:09 GMT -5
Post by Queenie on May 30, 2004 22:35:09 GMT -5
Hey Sunshine... First, you have only been here a short time compared to how long I have been posting. I wish we still had the old boards, then you can see how much I have posted on many occasions. Some of the questions are fan based, and I am not per say a fan. I also have answered many questions privately. It is not always the place on a public forum. Sometimes it is just too personal and really no ones business. There is so much I could say, but with the attitudes of late, why would I? Also, there are some things that are discussed that I do not know the answer, technical issues.Or things that David told me, that are statements not whole stories. Anyway, it is different when the relationship is personal other than fan based. Then there are the things that I just simple can't go there. Answers to statements made or things I know for sure, that I can't say or could hurt someone really bad. Thanks for your response. It was cordial... Thanks for you honest response enjoy your holiday..
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DAVID
May 30, 2004 23:01:15 GMT -5
Post by Jody on May 30, 2004 23:01:15 GMT -5
Thanks for you honest response enjoy your holiday.. Hey Sunshine , You are quite welcome, and thank you for being cordial...Much appreciation...
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DAVID
May 30, 2004 23:04:10 GMT -5
Post by Jody on May 30, 2004 23:04:10 GMT -5
Thanks for you honest response enjoy your holiday.. Sunshine, enjoy your holiday as well...
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molly
Ultimate Ruffness
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DAVID
May 31, 2004 1:53:34 GMT -5
Post by molly on May 31, 2004 1:53:34 GMT -5
QNew! I was a fan of Ruffin's music as well as being a friend. I too wish I could go back to the old board so I could see the information that Jody posted. I did not have an intimate realtionship with Ruffin,niether did Bees but I did have a personal one with him for many years. The questions you newer fans ask are questions that should be answered by people that knew him. "Fan" based questions are those in which anyone with a personal knowledge of Ruffin should be answering. IE shoe size? favorite eatery's,his relationship with different group members,favorite color. Most of the questions asked here have to do with his musical career. I would think that those questions shou l d be easily answered by any of us that claim to have known him. There are personal things about Ruffin that I would not discuss on a message board. But I don't consider his music one of them. If I was a fan I would expect the people that knew him to answer my questions.But that's just me. Der68 had an intimate relationship with Ruffin,and she doesn't speak of their private life. Which I appreciate because their intimate life does not interest me. However she does answer questions from "fans' that deal with his career and general knowledge of his life. I agree with Jody on one of her statements. There is a difference between a fan snd one that actually knew him. The people that knew him should certainly know more about him then a fan. QNew be proud to be a fan. Because he truly loved and appreciated his fans. That's what made him.
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der68
Ultimate Ruffness
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DAVID
May 31, 2004 2:44:31 GMT -5
Post by der68 on May 31, 2004 2:44:31 GMT -5
Molly! QNDF! I was David's biggest fan. I loved his voice,his music. To see him perform was one of my greatest pleasures. He was really something to see. His showmanship never ceased to excite me. I was also his woman. I never had a problem seperating his celebrity from the real person. I guess that's why I don't have a problem answering what questions I can on this board. Thank you Molly for your words. The truth is when I came to this board. I said I had a relationship with David. Once that was said,I knew there would be questions asked about David that I would be expected to know the answer. I don't speak of our intimate life because it was no different then any other man/woman relationship. I am proud to have been a fan of this great entertainer . I am also happy to shed whatever light I can on his career,and life. I mean isn't that why we are all here? Isn't that why you newer fans ask questions? In hopes that one of us that knew him would give you an answer? David and his music is one in the same. His musiical contribution is what made him David Ruffin. Not his relationships. His music is his legacy and that's what he would want to be remembered for. Not that we were in love. That's why I spare you all any details of our relationship. At the end of the day his music is what is important.
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