der68
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Post by der68 on Dec 3, 2003 19:57:32 GMT -5
Good Evening Everybody! i have ben reading the board all day. CP I will keep the promise I made to you. I just want to say that I feel in part responsible for this crazy mess. All of this started because of the conflict between Jody and myself. When I posted I posted only to the person whom I was having a problem with. I did not involve anybody else. I did not address anybody else. I read {3} THREE farewell letters. These 3 people were not asked to leave,but chose to leave. Yet they cannot leave. I can't understand why their goal is to destroy this board by causing havoc and confusion. I have not seen where anything positive has come out of their post,nor have any of these post been informative. Just a bunch of Mess. People's perceptions are not changed easily and arguing a mute point is senseless. If i felt berated,bashed,or disrespected I would make a concious choice not to communicate with people that I fet did that. Not the case here. Maybe some people need attention regardless of the kind. The whole logic of this disrespectful episode escapes me. Not any of these exchanges change anything. In fact they reinforce the very thing they are trying to disprove. Why do they want to be the cause of this board shuting down? Why don't they create a place to act a fool in? Instead of coming in here disrspecting CP's work? I just don't get it. These are aduts.
Whats with this coming back and forth to see if they are being mentioned? Posting private emails? Disrespecting other's right to privacy by actually posting a members name? That defeats the purpose of using a screen name. Not one of the 3 people that promised to leave was asked to leave. They all left on their own,and to create and join a new board. My question is why do they keep coming back just to start mess. Why leave if they really want to post here? I noticed where some post were deleted,as they ALL should have been. Why continue to post,just to have your post deleted? It's ludicrousis! I have apologized and will so again. Andy you handled having your email posted like the gentleman that you are. Common I am so sorry that your personal tragedy was posted on the board. CP I am really sorry that people are trying to destroy something you worked hard to create for other peoples enjoyment.
This board is not something that you had to create, and I along with the other "members" appreciate your efforts. Common sometimes its hard for people to accept that you no longer want to be bothered with them,and you are doing the only thing you can do. Continue to ignore them!! Molly I'm sorry I "blew" up your email and Evita you're just Kewl people.
Hey Molly do you have any wine left? I need a drink!
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Post by Joda on Dec 3, 2003 21:10:48 GMT -5
Not one of us was ask to leave, nor was you der. Yet you have several times said you were leaving also. Quit trying to put it all on someone else...
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Post by Andy on Dec 3, 2003 21:17:22 GMT -5
Hello der: We won't mention names, but I'm sure whomever you are talking about has no desire to be forever known as nothing but a liar, a fraud, and an imposter. They gave their word they are leaving. Their own actions will tell us everything we need to know. That is what I call being fair. P.S. Thanks for the compliment. I don't like being abrupt with people but sometimes it is the only rational thing to do.
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Post by Andy on Dec 3, 2003 21:23:34 GMT -5
Hi Jody: Didn't you agree not to post to der anymore? So why go there especially now?
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der68
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Post by der68 on Dec 3, 2003 21:27:09 GMT -5
Hello der: We won't mention names, but I'm sure whomever you are talking about has no desire to be forever known as nothing but a liar, a fraud, and an imposter. They gave their word they are leaving. Their own actions will tell us everything we need to know. That is what I call being fair. P.S. Thanks for the compliment. I don't like being abrupt with people but sometimes it is the only rational thing to do. Hey Andy! You are so welcome. I think you behaved with respect and integrity.  : |
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Post by der68 on Dec 3, 2003 21:43:24 GMT -5
Hi Jody: Didn't you agree not to post to der anymore? So why go there especially now? lol!lol! Andy don't worry I'm cool. And I will keep my word.lol!lol! ;D ;D ;D |
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Post by der68 on Dec 3, 2003 21:53:50 GMT -5
;D ;D ;D ;DWell that message was clear and percise dont ya think!!!! lol!lol!lol!
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Post by The Voice Of Reason on Dec 3, 2003 22:20:45 GMT -5
Who ever this Jody is must be embarrassed right about now. Sorry but I did read the post before it was deleted for the 4th TIME. Jody leave the girl alone.
1- Stop pushing the envelope.
2-Stop beating a dead horse.
3- Stop being a pain.
4- Stop trying to blend.
5-Stop getting on people's nerves.
6-Stop trying to reach out and touch somebody.
7- Stop getting in the kool-aid.
8- Stop obsessing.
9-Stop Trying.
10- Stop Tripping.
11-Stop Playing Yourself
Just Plain Stop!
This is more than a Hint! HEED IT!
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Common
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Post by Common on Dec 3, 2003 22:38:04 GMT -5
I'm gonna delete that post. It was quite inappropriate. Sorry everyone.
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Post by molly on Dec 3, 2003 22:42:09 GMT -5
Common you don't have to keep apologizing. Maybe all this will end now. I don't think that this subject should have been discussed on this board period,and your name certainly should not have been mentioned. But lets just hope it ends here.
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der68
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Post by der68 on Dec 3, 2003 23:36:47 GMT -5
Personally Common I thought it was a good post! ;D ;D ;D ;D....Y'all gonna make me loose my mind up in here... up in here. ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Post by Common on Dec 4, 2003 8:41:47 GMT -5
Hello all. Der- I read your post but I didn't have a chance to respond to it. All I can say is "Amen" to that. And I'm not saying anything else because again, more distortions & mistruths are gonna pop up here. To say because I posted about my dead relative on another doesn't give you license to continue to use this as an excuse to post my name & intimate details. I've been posting on Paul's board from its inception & the people over there knew me & my situation. THAT'S why I posted it. But again, what I saw here posted here & I ended up deleting was a GROSS distortion of the truth & now, you see the reason why I've stopped responding to this person. This person starts this drama & wants to pin it on someone else. The whole mess that she keeps posting was started by her!!!!! And that's the bottom line!
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Post by Evita on Dec 4, 2003 11:14:27 GMT -5
((((Der68))) Thank you Baby. I try to be cool. I've had some very unfavorable incidents happen to me -- not here -- but someplace else and I have NEVER forgotten it, BUT it taught me that some people, this is what they actually LIVE for -- making other people miserable (or trying to) because they are not who or what they want to be. Just ignore them and enjoy yourself. That's what I do, and believe me -- IT WORKS. Trying to talk (or post) to them is mute, b'cos they've already got their minds made up about you and what they PERCEIVE you to be. Fortunately for me, I DON'T LIVE MY LIFE ACCORDING TO WHAT PEOPLE PERCEIVE ME TO BE. BE BLESSED... ENJOY.... IGNORE.....
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Post by der68 on Dec 4, 2003 11:46:49 GMT -5
Good Morning Common,Evita and All. Common as I tried to tell you in my post. Some folks don't know when to say when. I can more than understand why you don't want to conversate with this person. I would have gotten the hint had my post been deleted once! 4 times come on now. Somebody was looking for a reaction. You have the right to post anything You want too about You. That doesn't give anybody else license to do the same. That just common sense,but as I have said before common sense is not that common.
Don't worry about this trivial mess. Some folks like attention.
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Post by der68 on Dec 4, 2003 11:50:31 GMT -5
Thank you Evita for your response. I know what you mean. Misery loves Company! And I will take your advice. Unless/Until folks start pushing me. But ignore is my word for today. ;D ;D ;D
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