molly
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Post by molly on Apr 6, 2005 23:49:14 GMT -5
Brandy, if he were still here, there would be no need for him to get an attorney. She would not even think of doing such a thing. Nobody ever heard of Genna until Ruffin passed. If he had an inkling, she would try selling him, he would have torn her a new Was Genna trying to make money off of DR while he was alive? Hell Naw Genna wasn't trying to make money off of him when he was still living. There would be no name change,defintely no book,no claims of being his "common law wife' either. She would have remained in Obscurity.
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Post by EmergingRuffian on Apr 7, 2005 1:48:18 GMT -5
That trifling tramp is still obscure. Just because you pread your legs does not make you special.
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Post by molly on Apr 7, 2005 10:05:08 GMT -5
That trifling tramp is still obscure. Just because you pread your legs does not make you special. She had his baby,so I guess she feels that puts her ahead of the pack.
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Post by Merry on Apr 7, 2005 17:05:15 GMT -5
She had his baby,so I guess she feels that puts her ahead of the pack. That only made her special to DER on some level at some time. What ever happened after that, who knows. (Unless it tells it in the book) No one else has to accept her for anything other than that. If they don't like her book, they don't have to accept her as an author. If they don't like what she sells, they don't have to accept her in business. If they don't like what she says, they don't have to listen. Like anyone else, she will get out of it what she puts into it. Do you think her book hurt DERJ's career?
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Post by Brandy on Apr 7, 2005 17:12:30 GMT -5
That only made her special to DER on some level at some time. What ever happened after that, who knows. (Unless it tells it in the book) No one else has to accept her for anything other than that. If they don't like her book, they don't have to accept her as an author. If they don't like what she sells, they don't have to accept her in business. If they don't like what she says, they don't have to listen. Like anyone else, she will get out of it what she puts into it. Do you think her book hurt DERJ's career? How did it make her special to him? she wasn't his wife. now having a baby with the one you love is something that would be special to anybody. Nobody don't have to accept her for spreading her legs and popping out a baby. lol that's just crazy. Yeah that book may have hurt her son's career because of the things said about people who could have possibly helped her son with his career. why ruin your kid's chances with taking shots at people who was in a position to help your child's career?
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Post by Merry on Apr 7, 2005 17:16:11 GMT -5
How did it make her special to him? she wasn't his wife. now having a baby with the one you love is something that would be special to anybody. Nobody don't have to accept her for spreading her legs and popping out a baby. lol that's just crazy. Yeah that book may have hurt her son's career because of the things said about people who could have possibly helped her son with his career. why ruin your kid's chances with taking shots at people who was in a position to help your child's career? You all have the advantage over me. I don't know much about her. If I got it right, he was with her for a period of time. Surely he cared about her on some level, or why would he be there at all? It couldn't be just the sex, he could have gotten that anywhere. Correct me if I am wrong, but I thought I read on here somewhere that she wrote the book as therapy? What a shame her therapy would hurt their son in some way.
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Post by EmergingRuffian on Apr 7, 2005 18:30:08 GMT -5
That work of fiction was not therapy. That heffa had an axe to grind, she could not grind it while he was living so she waited until he was gone forgetting that there are a ton of people that knew DER and were in his life in a much more meaningful way than her trifling behind was.
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Post by Queenie on Apr 7, 2005 19:02:15 GMT -5
You all have the advantage over me. I don't know much about her. If I got it right, he was with her for a period of time. Surely he cared about her on some level, or why would he be there at all? It couldn't be just the sex, he could have gotten that anywhere. Correct me if I am wrong, but I thought I read on here somewhere that she wrote the book as therapy? What a shame her therapy would hurt their son in some way. Not really Merry we don't know that crazy woman... we are learning just like you ...like I didn't know you can change your last name without the consent of a man? Merry, In my cyber readings, I heard Genna's nickname is "deep throat" .....DER being young his first experienced I bet hesaid "hot damn this woman goes all the way"... DER knew he was not going to have his way with a woman of color so Genna fit the bill...
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Post by Brandy on Apr 7, 2005 21:30:50 GMT -5
Not really Merry we don't know that crazy woman... we are learning just like you ...like I didn't know you can change your last name without the consent of a man? Merry, In my cyber readings, I heard Genna's nickname is "deep throat" .....DER being young his first experienced I bet hesaid "hot damn this woman goes all the way"... DER knew he was not going to have his way with a woman of color so Genna fit the bill... Queen you summed it all up..her actions is what gets her negative press and responses. I wonder why she didn't want people to read the negative responses to her book? shouldn't people have enough brain power to decide whether they will or won't get that book? if you're going to add the positives add the negatives..it's criticism and some people need to learn how to take the good with the bad you know?! A woman of color will not allow the bull period. she will not allow him to make a fool out of her and think it's ok..but in the end we all know where he came back to in the end so that doesn't need to be sweated at all ;D it's not being racist it's stating actual facts to those who want to try to throw it in there you feel me? ;D
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Post by Brandy on Apr 7, 2005 21:36:45 GMT -5
You all have the advantage over me. I don't know much about her. If I got it right, he was with her for a period of time. Surely he cared about her on some level, or why would he be there at all? It couldn't be just the sex, he could have gotten that anywhere. Correct me if I am wrong, but I thought I read on here somewhere that she wrote the book as therapy? What a shame her therapy would hurt their son in some way. It's perfectly alright because at first neither did I but I was smart enough to see that it was plain stupidity and disrespect on her part to be doing what she's doing and have done. yes he may have at one point but if he cheated on his wife with her what made her think he wouldn't do it to her? she wasn't exempt I don't know why she felt she was. He got what he wanted decided not to keep it or wife it so he left it ;D ;D and there lies the bitterness.
It may have been therapeutic for her but so is listening to a soothing cd and to bash people that could have possibly helped her son was just plain crazy regardless of what happened. so that's her fault for not doing what was best for her son instead she chose to chase after a man who clearly wanted nothing to do with her.
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Post by molly on Apr 7, 2005 21:52:21 GMT -5
You all have the advantage over me. I don't know much about her. If I got it right, he was with her for a period of time. Surely he cared about her on some level, or why would he be there at all? It couldn't be just the sex, he could have gotten that anywhere. Correct me if I am wrong, but I thought I read on here somewhere that she wrote the book as therapy? What a shame her therapy would hurt their son in some way. No advantage here merry. I didn't know Genna. I saw her a few times only because we happened to be in the same spot. But I never knew her. I didn't know she was someone "special" to Ruffin until her book. I knew she had his baby,because that's how she was referred to as "the girl that supposedly had Ruffin's baby". The only reason I bought her book was to find out how and when she became a "Ruffin". I don't think her book hurt her son's chance to become an artist. Why would it? The people in a position to help Jr. probably didn't even read it! It wasn't on anybody's best seller list. it wasn't even sold in stores or found in libraries. We talk about the book on this board,but there are more people that didn't read it then did. I don't think the "real" Ruffin's ever read it.
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Post by molly on Apr 7, 2005 22:00:37 GMT -5
It's perfectly alright because at first neither did I but I was smart enough to see that it was plain stupidity and disrespect on her part to be doing what she's doing and have done. yes he may have at one point but if he cheated on his wife with her what made her think he wouldn't do it to her? she wasn't exempt I don't know why she felt she was. He got what he wanted decided not to keep it or wife it so he left it ;D ;D and there lies the bitterness.
Brandy you're so right. He was cheating on his wife with her,but she thought it was so wrong for him to leave her for TT. He was never her's so he couldn't have cheated on her. He was another woman's husband, when she decided to have his baby and play house with him. He defintely wasn't trying to wife her. She didn't even know he had married Joy until she called his house. Even then she didn't get it.
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Post by molly on Apr 7, 2005 22:07:15 GMT -5
That only made her special to DER on some level at some time. Do you think her book hurt DERJ's career? Having his baby should have made her "special" to him, but evidently it didn't. He left her when she was 2 months pregnant and wasn't even there at the birth of his son. She was going to free clinics while he was riding Limo's and wearing mink coats. Was it right on his part. No,but that's how special her treated her. If that's "special" then I don't ever want to be that special.
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Post by Merry on Apr 11, 2005 17:49:20 GMT -5
Having his baby should have made her "special" to him, but evidently it didn't. He left her when she was 2 months pregnant and wasn't even there at the birth of his son. She was going to free clinics while he was riding Limo's and wearing mink coats. Was it right on his part. No,but that's how special her treated her. If that's "special" then I don't ever want to be that special. What a shame. Had anyone here talked to DER during the pregnancy time or just after, about his thought on the situation? If he were riding around "On Cloud 9" while she was at the clinic, that leaves alot open ... Did he know the baby was his during the pregnancy? Or did a paternity test confirm it later? At some point, he acknowledged DERJR (thank God for the child's sake), or he wouldn't have had anything to do with him. I know this is a "Celebrity's" life and it is therefore open for most discussion, but if any of you believe it is hateful or harmful to DERJR or the girls, to continue then I will withdraw my question.
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Post by Merry on Apr 11, 2005 17:56:32 GMT -5
Queen you summed it all up..her actions is what gets her negative press and responses. I wonder why she didn't want people to read the negative responses to her book? shouldn't people have enough brain power to decide whether they will or won't get that book? if you're going to add the positives add the negatives..it's criticism and some people need to learn how to take the good with the bad you know?! A woman of color will not allow the bull period. she will not allow him to make a fool out of her and think it's ok..but in the end we all know where he came back to in the end so that doesn't need to be sweated at all ;D it's not being racist it's stating actual facts to those who want to try to throw it in there you feel me? ;D No racist feeling felt about it here, but just one question: Isn't it contradictory to say in very broad terms, that a woman of color will not allow him to make a fool out of her, but in the same board we talk about "Baby Mama"?. It is true in any race that some get stepped on, some make piss-poor decisions, and some absolutely will not be played. If DER came back in the end, that was his choice. He appears to have been the type to know what he wanted, just when he wanted it, and just made those choices daily. By the way I have noticed a couple different poses of the same person on your avitar... Is that you? Very pretty!!
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